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    Do You Mourn When a Family Member Who Was Disrespectful to You Dies?

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    Post by Marc™ on Tue Feb 19, 2013 1:41 am

    If you've ever had a relative who was disrespectful or cruel to you when they were alive die, did you mourn their death? I had an uncle....my fathers brother....who was tended to rude to me when I was kid. He died when I like 14. I think I felt bad for my grandparents and my father, who were shaken by his death, but it left me blase.



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    Post by TheEnglishButterfly on Tue Feb 19, 2013 1:47 am

    I had family members who were EXTREMELY disrespectful to members of my family, and nope, I didn't give a damn when they died. They did the world a favor when they died. I have some family members that have probably died and we weren't notified... and obviously we don't care considering what they did to other members of our family.



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    Post by Supernova on Tue Feb 19, 2013 2:47 am

    "hi there! Goodbye, ya bastard!" cool dance cheers (rah)
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    Post by wants2laugh on Tue Feb 19, 2013 6:14 am

    nope. i have been said to be a cold fish cause i could go to funerals and not shed a tear. most of them were just acting anyway, or were being dramatic wanting the sympathy or pity. screw em



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    Post by Shale on Tue Feb 19, 2013 10:23 am

    Supernova wrote:"hi there! Goodbye, ya bastard!" cool dance cheers (rah)
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    Not just family, I have survived several nemeses and have even trashed them in the press because that was the relationship we had when they were alive. Ann Landers was one - that woman was dangerous.

    Another was a fat smoker whom I called out for violating the law by smoking in a hospital office. He may have been part of why I was let go at that hospital but fat, sedentary, smoker ain't here any more.
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    Post by CeCe on Tue Feb 19, 2013 10:58 am

    No. Don't find any joy in their death. Just don't give much of a damn. The exception to that might be Anita Bryant. I know a lot of people won't remember her, but the grief that bitch caused is unforgivable. She's still around. Still the same old cow.






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    Post by Nystyle709 on Tue Feb 19, 2013 11:44 am

    Well, I haven't had a relative that's been rude and disrespectful to me....at least not to the point where I would rejoice in their death. I'd prob be indifferent to it.



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    Post by Alan Smithee on Tue Feb 19, 2013 3:31 pm

    My side of the family is old and dying off. I will only be upset by my father, brother and step-mother if they go before me. I won't shed a tear for my father's sister (I truly think my father will do an actual happy dance) and I probably won't even find out if anyone else dies. It's very likely I haven't met them anyway. I'm much closer to my wife's side of the family.



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    Post by Chris on Tue Feb 19, 2013 4:09 pm

    I have never had a relative who I had an adversarial relationship with to the point where their dying wouldn't upset me. The closest thing I've come to that is an uncle-by-marriage who I didn't like, but he and my aunt split up nearly twenty years ago and now it's rare that I see him. If he died, I'd feel bad for my cousins, because he's their dad, but I wouldn't personally mourn.



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    Post by RedBedroom on Tue Feb 19, 2013 9:04 pm

    My maternal gandfather hated me, but I was young when he died, and I didn't care and I was a bit happy because he died right before he was to visit us and I was dreading his arrival.

    Other than that, I guess I would feel bad for the people close to the desceased.

    Kind of on-topic, I just found out tonight that an ex-friend's grandfather died. I do not associate with her and never will, but I feel bad for her tonight.
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    Post by CatEyes10736 on Tue Feb 19, 2013 9:06 pm

    Haven't been in that situation, but I can't imagine that I would be too broken up over it. More sad that the family was having to deal with the loss, but probably not mournful.




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