The thing is, Jane is a flaker, and you are buying the tickets in advance with the others paying you back.
Yeah, it's easy to say, "Just make her pay if she doesn't go." But I think even if she didn't go, she would be a rough one to get the cash from.
She and her husband make more money than Jay and I do, so I am not about to stick my neck out only to get screwed. But if our tickets are not all purchased together, we run the risk of her not sitting with us.
What would you say to the ladies advocating she gets an invite?