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    Post by DarkOblivion on Tue Sep 21, 2010 2:14 am

    Does sex on the first date increase or decease the likelihood on a real, on-going relationship developing afterwards? If you've had sex on the first date, how likely is it that it becomes a relationship versus you never seeing them again after that?
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    Post by RedBedroom on Tue Sep 21, 2010 4:14 pm

    I think more times than not it is going to lead to a short lived romance, but not always...depends on the couple.
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    Post by JM130ELM on Wed Sep 22, 2010 2:38 am

    Depends on how long you talked before. If you go to a club or hook up with someone some night for the sake of sex, then you most likely will never see them again after. The whole point was to have sex that night. Plan executed. If we've been talking for a while, have a decent enough rapport that we've gotten to know each other, but then have sex the night of our first official "date", then chances are we'll see each other again if it was good.



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    Post by MandyPerfumeGirl on Wed Sep 22, 2010 3:40 pm

    I think it kind of depends on the couple. I think sex on the first date would definitely work out if they had been just friends beforehand (a friendship that turned romantic, etc.), but sex on the first date with a person you hardly know? I don't believe in that and I think the road ahead is going to be a very short one.



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    Post by Marc™ on Wed Sep 22, 2010 9:22 pm

    JM130ELM wrote:Depends on how long you talked before. If you go to a club or hook up with someone some night for the sake of sex, then you most likely will never see them again after. The whole point was to have sex that night. Plan executed. If we've been talking for a while, have a decent enough rapport that we've gotten to know each other, but then have sex the night of our first official "date", then chances are we'll see each other again if it was good.

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    Post by tewaz1 on Thu Sep 23, 2010 1:34 am

    Intuitively, I would think that sex on a first dat would reduce the chances of a meaningful relationship.
    Ironically, I never had sex on the first date, but made one exception, and we have been together for seven years now.
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    Post by RedBedroom on Thu Sep 23, 2010 2:50 am

    Good on you, T
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    Post by tewaz1 on Thu Sep 23, 2010 3:07 am

    Thanks Red!
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    Post by Alan Smithee on Fri Sep 24, 2010 7:39 am

    Depends on the couple. Been together since 1977. Longer than some of you have been born.



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    Post by Marc™ on Tue Nov 30, 2010 6:59 pm

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    Post by Supernova on Tue Nov 30, 2010 8:34 pm

    You can note nobody's picked the middle road on the poll yet, and here's why, if sex alone could bond people, experts would NOT advise against it when you and your spouse are fighting all the time.
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    Post by Nystyle709 on Tue Nov 30, 2010 11:25 pm

    Supernova wrote:You can note nobody's picked the middle road on the poll yet, and here's why, if sex alone could bond people, experts would NOT advise against it when you and your spouse are fighting all the time.
    No, nobody picked it because you don't 'bond' with someone by having sex on the first date. Sex bonds two people who are in a relationship.



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    Post by TSJFan4Ever on Tue Nov 30, 2010 11:56 pm

    For the most part, I think sex on the first date is nothing more than booty call.
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    Post by RobbieFTW on Wed Dec 01, 2010 8:36 am

    More likely than not it's gonna be just a one night stand I think.



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    Post by femme fatale on Fri Mar 08, 2013 4:19 am

    Sex on the first date is like reading a movie spoiler IMO.
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    Post by Shale on Fri Mar 08, 2013 10:00 am

    Wow, where has this 3-year-old thread been hiding. In 2010 I woulda said that I never went on dates and that 2 guys quite often have sex on first meeting, usually a one-time tryst.

    However, since then I have gotten involved with a guy who is quite romantic tho also will do a pickup on first meeting him. Which is exactly what we did when he came onto me at the beach, went to my place and had sex.

    BUT, he made a date to see me a week later on my B'day and we spent the day together on SoBe, then back to my place for sex. This was in November.

    He just got back from Italy and we have already gone out on three more dates since last week - so this has turned into more than a solitary one-time tryst.

    So, I don't think sex on the first 'date' necessarily affects the outcome of a relationship.




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    Post by Chris on Fri Mar 08, 2013 2:33 pm

    There were a few times when a second, third or forth date happened after, but for the most part it usually didn't go farther than that that one night.



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    Post by Tony Marino on Fri Mar 08, 2013 2:40 pm

    Shale wrote:Wow, where has this 3-year-old thread been hiding. In 2010 I woulda said that I never went on dates and that 2 guys quite often have sex on first meeting, usually a one-time tryst.

    However, since then I have gotten involved with a guy who is quite romantic tho also will do a pickup on first meeting him. Which is exactly what we did when he came onto me at the beach, went to my place and had sex.

    BUT, he made a date to see me a week later on my B'day and we spent the day together on SoBe, then back to my place for sex. This was in November.

    He just got back from Italy and we have already gone out on three more dates since last week - so this has turned into more than a solitary one-time tryst.

    So, I don't think sex on the first 'date' necessarily affects the outcome of a relationship.


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