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    Post by Chris on Sun Mar 14, 2010 9:35 am

    Have you ever dated someone who (personality-wise) you really didn't like that much?
    How long did the relationship last and in hindsight why did you bother?



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    Post by RedBedroom on Mon Mar 15, 2010 10:09 pm

    Yes, I have been. He was awful, but I was young and immature, and had a good job while I was going to college, and he played off all my insecurities in getting me to stay. Looking back on it with a much more mature thought process, I could have ended it sooner and certainly should have.
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    Post by stavdash on Mon Mar 15, 2010 10:27 pm

    When I was younger, I briefly dated this guy who was a complete and utter diva, who bored/irked the hell out of me. I forgot how we met, I think it was through a mutual friend. Anyway, we hung out for a bit and started dating out of boredom. At least that was my reasoning. Whenever the phone would ring, I would hope that it wasn't him. When it was, I would spend the entire conversation rolling my eyes and making frustrated faces in the background. It got to the point where our thing was basically phone tag, with me trying my damnedest to avoid talking to him. Finally I had enough and told him to not call me back.
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    Post by RobbieFTW on Tue Mar 16, 2010 6:29 am

    I dated this guy who I thought was cool but became irritatingly clingy. I was so disturbed by his nuerotic behavior that I started avoiding him. Guess I stuck around because I didn't wanna be mean because he was nice and because I don't like negative confrontation. But after a while I really started resenting him. Eventually he must have gotten the picture that I wasn't interested anymore and he stopped calling. In HINDSIGHT I wish I had been more direct with him though. I wasted my own time.



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    Post by CatEyes10736 on Wed Mar 17, 2010 7:26 am

    I don't have the patience or interest to be bothered with pretending. If I am becoming disinterested or annoyed with someone I'm seeing, I go ahead and end it before it becomes a burden.
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    Post by Marc™ on Wed Mar 17, 2010 10:28 am

    ^ Pretty much how I feel.

    I just say "listen trick...you're on my nerves. We can still get together and do it every now and then, but I'm afraid I'm gonna have to ask you to leave."



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    Post by Nystyle709 on Wed Mar 17, 2010 2:09 pm

    Marc wrote:^ Pretty much how I feel.

    I just say "listen trick...you're on my nerves. We can still get together and do it every now and then, but I'm afraid I'm gonna have to ask you to leave."

    LOL! Ur still crazy...


    To answer the question: nope, not really. I can say that there have been times where I couldn't stand them, but I haven't stayed with someone I just in general didn't like. If I don't like you, I don't fuck with you. Period.
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    Post by Chris on Tue Mar 12, 2013 12:27 pm

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    Post by Shale on Tue Mar 12, 2013 12:52 pm

    CatEyes10736 wrote:I don't have the patience or interest to be bothered with pretending. If I am becoming disinterested or annoyed with someone I'm seeing, I go ahead and end it before it becomes a burden.
    yeah that…




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    Post by Bluesmama on Tue Mar 12, 2013 12:54 pm

    I ended up that way with my first husband.



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    Post by Alan Smithee on Tue Mar 12, 2013 1:34 pm

    Chris wrote:Have you ever dated someone who (personality-wise) you really didn't like that much?
    How long did the relationship last and in hindsight why did you bother?

    I've been in relationships that went bad but I never started out dating someone I thought was an annoying pain in the ass right off the bat.



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    Post by wants2laugh on Tue Mar 12, 2013 3:38 pm

    i had a love/hate relationship... i stupidaly thoguht that if i loved him, i could overlook things... that loving was part of accepting.

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