The no-kids-allowed movement is spreading

The no-kids-allowed movement is spreading
by Piper Weiss, Shine Staff, 19 hours ago



What's the matter with kids today and why doesn't anyone want them around? In June, Malaysia Airlines banned babies from many of their first class cabins, prompting other major airlines to consider similar policies.

Lately, complaints about screaming kids are being taken seriously, not only by airlines, but by hotels, movie theaters, restaurants, and even grocery stores.

Earlier this month, McDain's, a Pittsburgh area restaurant that banned kids under 6 became a mascot for the no-kids-zone movement.

According to a Pittsburgh local news poll, more than half of area residents were in favor of the ban. And now big business is paying attention.

"Brat bans could well be the next frontier in destination and leisure-product marketing," writes Robert Klara in an article on the child-free trend in AdWeek.

Klara points to Leavethembehind.com, a travel website for kid-free vacations, with a massive list of yoga retreats, luxury resorts and bargain hotels around the world that ban children.

"Call me a grinch, a misanthrope, a DINK (dual-income-no-kids), or the anti-cute-police, but I hate (hate a thousand times over) ill-behaved children/infants/screaming banshees in upscale restaurants (ok, anywhere, really, but I don’t want any death threats)," writes Charlotte Savino on Travel and Leisure's blog. She lists a slew of a popular destination restaurants with kid-free areas and policies for travelers looking for quiet vacation dining.

Traveling is one thing, but what about in kids' own hometowns? Should kids been banned from local movie theaters, like they were at a recent adults-only Harry Potter screening? In Texas, one cinema chain has even flipped the model, banning kids under six altogether, except on specified "baby days".

Even running errands with toddlers may be changing. This summer Whole Foods stores in Missouri are offering child-free shopping hours (kids are allowed inside but childcare service is available for parents who want to shop kid-free.) Meanwhile in Florida, a controversy brews over whether kids can be banned from a condominium's outdoor area. That's right, some people don't even want kids outdoors.

When did kids become the equivalent of second-hand smoke? Blame a wave of childless adults with money to spare. "Empty nesters continue to wield a huge swath of discretionary spending dollars, and population dips in first-world countries mean more childless couples than ever," writes AdWeek's Klara.

Catering to the child-free community may be good for business but is it good for parents? It could help narrow choices and make kid-friendly environments even kid-friendlier. And let's be honest, babies won't miss flying first class. They won't even remember it. But their moms and dads will.

Most parents with young children have self-imposed limits on spending and leisure. This new movement imposes limits set by the public. And the public isn't as child-friendly as it used to be. As businesses respond to their new breed of 'first-class' clientele, are parents in danger of becoming second-class citizens?

RedBedroom wrote:The market mentioned isn't really child free, they just offer child care for those who want it. I think that's a good thing. Our market here has a tot zone all day long.

I hope children being banned from shopping places never becomes a norm. I can co-sign restaurants, theaters, and other places where people are paying for entertainment. But I would not go to a place that did not allow kids when I am there buying necessities.

RedBedroom wrote:The market mentioned isn't really child free, they just offer child care for those who want it. I think that's a good thing. Our market here has a tot zone all day long.

I hope children being banned from shopping places never becomes a norm. I can co-sign restaurants, theaters, and other places where people are paying for entertainment. But I would not go to a place that did not allow kids when I am there buying necessities.

Chris wrote:


It wouldn't bother me at all if places where I am paying for entertainment or leisure were 'child-free' zones (or barred children under a certain age.) I wish my gym would adopt this policy, because I find it annoying when small children run around inside the locker room.

Shopping centers and supermarkets, however, exist largely for family necessities. Children should always be welcome in places such as those.