This is from within our family. It's a long story but basically, my niece has not been allowed in our house for 15 years because her father hated our family and got sole custody in the divorce by giving his lawyer a blank check. So over the years we have to find neighbors whose homes we can use to visit with her when she comes with her mom once or twice a year.
Throughout her life she has been in athletic training practically since she could walk, had to get up at 5 in the morning to run miles, has to do weight training, everything, has been in karate, in track, you name it, has always had to be THE brightest student, has never had an A minus IN HER LIFE.
Now she's 18 and going straight into college for 4 years, in the corp on a scholarship, then 4 years of medical school, 2 years of residency, and then into being a doctor. I asked her today when she's ever going to be able to have any fun and she said in the summertime.
Now, people look at this and they see it as a great experience, a great education, etc., I on the other hand call it a miserable life because she's never really been able to be a kid, she always had to be traveling to take part in track meets and karate competitions all over the world, can't eat for the entire day before a game because she might be a pound overweight, what the hell? And already at 18 she's had a dislocated hip and had to have hernia surgery and this isn't going away and everybody's saying she needs MORE exercise so the corp is just what she needs. MORE? I think she needs less, I think the poor kid actually needs a LIFE before she throws it all away in school and the military and medicine. But oooooh no her father was going to have a perfect kid, perfect student, perfect athlete, the only place he couldn't dictate her life was he wanted her to be an engineer and it was her decision to go to medical school, so that's a small victory.
I used to envy her because she got to go all over the world and do so much stuff, but I sure don't envy her now. I've already been in college, and virtually it was hell enough, I can't imagine going in person and going through the rigamarole she's going to, especially straight out of advanced gifted high school where she always had to get the best grades in everything.
If she can make it, I'll be very proud of her, but I can't imagine any kid having to live through what she's had to, couldn't ever be less than perfect in anything.
Throughout her life she has been in athletic training practically since she could walk, had to get up at 5 in the morning to run miles, has to do weight training, everything, has been in karate, in track, you name it, has always had to be THE brightest student, has never had an A minus IN HER LIFE.
Now she's 18 and going straight into college for 4 years, in the corp on a scholarship, then 4 years of medical school, 2 years of residency, and then into being a doctor. I asked her today when she's ever going to be able to have any fun and she said in the summertime.
Now, people look at this and they see it as a great experience, a great education, etc., I on the other hand call it a miserable life because she's never really been able to be a kid, she always had to be traveling to take part in track meets and karate competitions all over the world, can't eat for the entire day before a game because she might be a pound overweight, what the hell? And already at 18 she's had a dislocated hip and had to have hernia surgery and this isn't going away and everybody's saying she needs MORE exercise so the corp is just what she needs. MORE? I think she needs less, I think the poor kid actually needs a LIFE before she throws it all away in school and the military and medicine. But oooooh no her father was going to have a perfect kid, perfect student, perfect athlete, the only place he couldn't dictate her life was he wanted her to be an engineer and it was her decision to go to medical school, so that's a small victory.
I used to envy her because she got to go all over the world and do so much stuff, but I sure don't envy her now. I've already been in college, and virtually it was hell enough, I can't imagine going in person and going through the rigamarole she's going to, especially straight out of advanced gifted high school where she always had to get the best grades in everything.
If she can make it, I'll be very proud of her, but I can't imagine any kid having to live through what she's had to, couldn't ever be less than perfect in anything.
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