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So I started kinda "seeing" this one girl who has a connection to my job. She doesn't exactly work with me, but I see her there every few days. Of course the rumor mill has been working overtime with this news and it is already starting to frustrate me as I tend to keep personal business away from work. How do you dealt w/ this (if you have?) Any suggestions?
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Do you date co-workers?
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Heck if you like the girl the hell with the rumor mongrels. If it becomes serious they are going to know about it anyway so why worry about it.
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Sorry I can't be of any help except to say good luck. I hope it works out between the two of you even if by "seeing" you mean just having sex. It's a shame people can't mind their own business.
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When I was a young man working as the Pinkerton Guard on the evening shift in a General Hospital I ended up a few times going home with a nurse for the night. I rather liked the rumor mill (Remember this was 1967 - the sexual revolution) It let other nurses know the young guard was available for night duty. 
That is also where I hooked up with Mrs. R, the older switchboard operator for a continuing affair.
I met my future wife at work and we started living together while still working there. Rumor mill knew about that one as well. Unless you are violating company policy I wouldn't really worry about the rumors.
See it as spontaneous bragging rights. But that is just me, never been much for sneaking around - pretty much a do it in the road kinda guy.
That is also where I hooked up with Mrs. R, the older switchboard operator for a continuing affair.
I met my future wife at work and we started living together while still working there. Rumor mill knew about that one as well. Unless you are violating company policy I wouldn't really worry about the rumors.
See it as spontaneous bragging rights. But that is just me, never been much for sneaking around - pretty much a do it in the road kinda guy.
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I have before, and I would again. Far as rumors are concerned 
Unless your place of employment has a no-fraternization policy amongst employees, I wouldn't treat it as a secret. They'd then have nothing to gossip about.
Unless your place of employment has a no-fraternization policy amongst employees, I wouldn't treat it as a secret. They'd then have nothing to gossip about.
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Nhaiyel wrote:I have before, and I would again. Far as rumors are concerned
Unless your place of employment has a no-fraternization policy amongst employees, I wouldn't treat it as a secret. They'd then have nothing to gossip about.
. I have a few co-workers that are married to each other and a few that go out together publicly and a few more that are messing around, but trying to keep it on down low. Nature of the working atmosphere. 
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