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    Are you what your parents wanted you to be?

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    Post by Chris Sun Sep 18, 2011 8:50 am

    Did your parents have any expectations about what they wanted you to do/be in your adulthood? If so, did you fall in line, or go rogue?
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    Post by Nystyle709 Sun Sep 18, 2011 10:20 am

    The only thing my parents wanted me to do was go to college and get my degree. I haven't gotten it yet, so I guess I'm rogue for the most part.
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    Post by Supernova Sun Sep 18, 2011 11:00 am

    Yeah, about the only expectation my mother had was for me to go to college, and get my degree, so I don't wind up as some factory worker...so far so good, though it's funny because from the time I was 9 I swore up and down I was never going to college, and given it hasn't gotten me or her any closer to getting a job, I can't say that it was worth the 5 years spent getting it.
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    Post by Shale Sun Sep 18, 2011 11:16 am

    Let's see. It started out OK. Graduated high school, went into the Air Force, got out and worked as a cop, then took computer school (1969).

    Then I started hanging out with long-haired hippies, sleeping with everyone, smoking dope, dropping acid, hooking up with a guy, then a black woman.

    Nah, not what mom expected.

    (Dad was a good-ol-boy from Mississippi who had his own unsavory history so he was more accepting of me sowing wild oats)
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    Post by Alan Smithee Sun Sep 18, 2011 11:41 am

    I know I turned out fine as far as my father is concerned.
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    Post by Bluesmama Sun Sep 18, 2011 2:59 pm

    Nope. In fact, my mother was so disappointed in me that she severed ties when I was 37. I made some mistakes but lived straight and took care of my own problems (didn't even try to run to Mommy for everything like so many adult children do nowadays).


    But I never married any guy SHE chose, I was the first and only divorcee in the family, and ~ worst ~ I moved away from home. She had mental issues.
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    Post by CatEyes10736 Sun Sep 18, 2011 6:47 pm

    Yes and no. My parents were big on me going to college, which I did. So they're happy there. They're glad that I'm working. They're glad that I gave them a grandchild. However I think they wish that I was married and that I was pursuing what I went to school for, which I'm currently not.

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