Homophobia amongst race and ethnic minorities

stonestatic wrote:Should being minorities themselves inspire more understanding to what gays and lesbians go through?

stonestatic wrote:This is usually a heated subject at other boards but I was curious to see how this is seen here. What's your take on racial minorities like black, hispanic & middle eastern being sometimes more homophobic percentage wise than whites. Should being minorities themselves inspire more understanding to what gays and lesbians go through?

Nhaiyel wrote:I don't know about Hispanics and Middle-Easterners, but there absolutely IS a disproportionately high amount of homophobic attitudes within the Black community…based on and/or fueled by religion, tradition and probably sexism too, with male/female gender roles being conscience. That cannot be denied, and if I had to guess, that probably is the case with most "ethnic" minorities struggle to accept homosexuality (ethnic communities in general cling more to tradition than white society does.) How to combat homophobia in the Black community would be for more Black (Hispanics and Middle-Easterners in their respective communities as well) gays/lesbians/bisexuals coming out of the closet, standing up and demanding to be counted. It really is a "family" issue that has to be dealt with within the community.

I can tell you what won't change anything, and what has a counter-effect, is mainstream (i.e. "White") society posturing and finger wagging about the homophobia that they perceive to exist amongst racial and ethnic minorities. Like Chris said, that comes off as very patronizing, puts people on a defensive, and probably causes them to cling even more to their criticized stances.

Impact wrote:

Blacks, Hispanics and Middle Easterners put together don't have the same political power in the US that Whites do. Whenever there is a bill enacted to strip away rights and protections for gays, it's usually White lawmakers behind it. Even if ethnic minorites do have a higher proportion of homophobic attitudes in general than Whites, the bottom line is that Whites have the #'s to make the difference. So what's the bigger problem here? Negative ATTITUDES of certain racial and ethnic groups or the actual POWER that "a" group has to keep gays 2nd class citizens?

stonestatic wrote:This is usually a heated subject at other boards but I was curious to see how this is seen here. What's your take on racial minorities like black, hispanic & middle eastern being sometimes more homophobic percentage wise than whites. Should being minorities themselves inspire more understanding to what gays and lesbians go through?

stonestatic wrote:I should say folks that I wasn't trying to imply that whites aren't homophobic and don't have more power to legislate bigotry. But it's been said even in this thread that ethnic cultures traditionally have a higher value placed on traditional masculinity, male pride, gender roles and religion/conservatism. All of which stands to have a heightened homophobia. Again I wasn't saying that it wasn't a problem among whites, I was just asking if demographics that have had to deal with a history INSTITUTIONALIZED bigotry should be more sympathetic to other communities dealing with it now. I wasn't comparing POWER to ATTITUDE. But I don't think the latter should be dismissed because of the former.

JMO.

Thanks all for the feedback!

Nhaiyel wrote:I wouldn't go so far as to say "hypocritical," but instead more human. Some need to understand that just because two people both had abusive fathers growing up doesn't make them kindred spirits, who understand each others lives and can automatically relate to, or both with, their deep, personal struggles. When it comes to the issue of homophobia in the black community, since black gays/lesbians/bisexuals/transgenders are the one who are most affected by it, it is they who have to engage the overall community. By and large, the gay community and the black community are so disconnected from each other that the neither is directly affected by the other sides bigoted attitudes or prejudices. Someone outside the black community condescending the problem, and deeming the audacity of it all hypocritical is not going to inspire any kind of movement toward enlightenment or progress.

Nhaiyel wrote:I don't know about Hispanics and Middle-Easterners, but there absolutely IS a disproportionately high amount of homophobic attitudes within the Black community…based on and/or fueled by religion, tradition and probably sexism too, with male/female gender roles being conscience. That cannot be denied, and if I had to guess, that probably is the case with most "ethnic" minorities struggle to accept homosexuality (ethnic communities in general cling more to tradition than white society does.) How to combat homophobia in the Black community would be for more Black (Hispanics and Middle-Easterners in their respective communities as well) gays/lesbians/bisexuals coming out of the closet, standing up and demanding to be counted. It really is a "family" issue that has to be dealt with within the community...

Forgiveness_Man wrote:It's more prevalent among minorities? I thought that wasn't possible.

Marc wrote:

I'll bite:
Why?

Nystyle709 wrote:You can hide being gay. You can't hide being black, Hispanic, Middle Eastern. I think they need to be quiet.

Nystyle709 wrote:

That would be it. You think I care if some old white person, or any other ethnic person for that matter, is racist? Racism is LEARNED, it's not innate. Basically people have their own minds to form their own views, however misinformed or ignorant their views may be. There is only a problem when there is a person in a position of power (a person who can actually stop you from getting a job, house, loan, etc) who has those ignorant views. Not everyone agrees with homosexuality. Unless someone physically harming you or stopping you from the quality of life that you're entitled to having, then that's when you should raise hell. Other than that, not everyone has to agree with what you do.

LVJoel wrote:
In today's world, race is a lot more malleable than you seem to think. There are people with colored skin who self-identify as white, and vice versa. President Obama's mother is Caucasian and his father is Negro. Regardless of his skin color, which is dark, what race does that make him?

Uh, Black. And?

And just what do you mean by "I think they need to be quiet?" Why? I should just go back in my closet, shut the door, turn out the light and accept being treated as a second class citizen?

I didn't say you should. But.....at least you would have that OPTION. I don't have the OPTION of 'hiding' my skin color. So yeah, be quiet in thinking being discriminatory in being gay even pales in comparison to being discriminatory in being a minority.

Up yours.

LVJoel wrote:

Agree with what I do? What kind of BS is that? What I "do" is none of your business

Calm your nerve. I'm not interested in what you do behind closed doors. You're right, it's none of my business and I'm hardly trying to make it my business. Do whatever you want. Be merry!

, it's not your right to agree OR disagree with it!

Uh, who told you that? I have the right to agree or disagree with anything I choose to. It's in the Constitution. Where you been? And you're wrong anyway, I never said I was personally against homosexuality. So I don't know why you assumed that. But the fact that there are people who don't agree with it is still true.

Those who speak as you do ARE causing me harm, in the ballot boxes of America.