Have you had to be told to 'calm down' anytime lately? If so, why?

This past weekend, things got a little heated between me and my cousins fiancee. He's always fuckin with me, so this time I turned and hit him, I thought I was gonna hit him in the stomach area, instead almost hit him where it counts. Almost, mind you. Anyway, he was butt hurt that I almost hit him there, and it got a little heated between us, so my cousin gets involved and she tells us both to calm the fuck down.

I don't remember. I haven't gotten irate lately.

Not lately maybe about a year or so when I had one of my battles with my father.

Nope. I'm usually the person asking for peace and quiet but not that often either.

I think it was my husband and that it likely happened back in September when I visited my older brothers in California. I got very frustrated with them. They are 76 and 80 and I lack patience.

My husband gets just as frustrated with them, too ~ as well as his own family ~ but he keeps his composure better and is more understanding.