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+7Shale Nystyle709 RedBedroom AtownPeep Judy P. Bluesmama femme fatale 11 posters |
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femme fatale …is a Power Member.
Join date : 2010-06-30 Posts : 1160 Rep : 46
| Subject: To the females here...have you ever dated a man who... Sat Nov 12, 2011 7:36 pm | |
| Ladies have you ever dated a guy you suspected was.................not totally heterosexual? | |
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Bluesmama …is a Power Member.
Join date : 2011-07-09 Location : Portland “Burbs” Posts : 3353 Rep : 43
| Subject: Re: To the females here...have you ever dated a man who... Sat Nov 12, 2011 8:14 pm | |
| Hmmmmm. . . . .
Not that I know of. | |
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Judy P. …is a Newbie.
Join date : 2011-10-25 Posts : 31 Rep : 2
| Subject: Re: To the females here...have you ever dated a man who... Sat Nov 12, 2011 10:16 pm | |
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AtownPeep …is a Power Member.
Join date : 2010-01-31 Location : Atlanta, GA Posts : 1867 Rep : 39
| Subject: Re: To the females here...have you ever dated a man who... Sun Nov 13, 2011 2:12 am | |
| Nope. But I have turned down guys who I suspected weren't. | |
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RedBedroom …is a Chamber DEITY.
Join date : 2010-02-18 Posts : 10696 Rep : 312
| Subject: Re: To the females here...have you ever dated a man who... Sun Nov 13, 2011 2:37 am | |
| YES!
Eric was my last boyfriend, 14 years ago, before I started dating my son's dad. We only dated a short time, but I did like him quite a bit, but it did not take me long to realize he was either gay or bisexual. I met him at the bar I worked at in college. I was a bit indifferent to him at first but a coworker told me one night how much Eric was into me and how highly he spoke of me. I fed into that and we had a month or so of fun dating, but it ended poorly with me really being a bitch.
I won't go into detail other than the fact we were way too honest with each other and I did not take criticism well. So when he got on me about something on our last day spending time together, I made a shot at his sexuality. I should not have done that. I was just being a defensive little bitch.
Months later, he was dating a man. I don't know if he was gay or bisexual. I feel very bad for what I said to him as I shouldn't have said what I did. But we actually did remain friends for the amount of time I worked at that bar. | |
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Nystyle709 ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
Join date : 2010-03-16 Location : New York Posts : 27030 Rep : 339
| Subject: Re: To the females here...have you ever dated a man who... Sun Nov 13, 2011 2:56 am | |
| No. And if I do, it's a wrap. | |
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Shale ...is a Chamber Royal.
Join date : 2010-09-27 Location : Miami Beach Posts : 9699 Rep : 219
| Subject: Re: To the females here...have you ever dated a man who... Sun Nov 13, 2011 10:35 am | |
| My wife dated me (If going to Waffle House with a bunch of co-workers is a date). When we started getting serious about seeing each other I told her I was bi. She had no problem with it.
In fact, sometimes I think bi guys are more at ease as lovers - no anxieties about presenting a macho image or performing str8 in bed. I can comfortably hug male friends (some gay) and my wife appreciated that open sensitivity. (Yeah, we did long walks on the beach too). | |
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Cheaps ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
Join date : 2010-11-17 Posts : 25876 Rep : 252
| Subject: Re: To the females here...have you ever dated a man who... Sun Nov 13, 2011 11:40 am | |
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FireIce918 …is Authorized.
Join date : 2010-06-22 Location : VA Posts : 855 Rep : 8
| Subject: Re: To the females here...have you ever dated a man who... Mon Nov 14, 2011 1:50 am | |
| Yeah, in high school. I should have known. Dude had three tongue rings in three different colors | |
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captainbryce …is a Power Member.
Join date : 2010-04-11 Location : California Posts : 2051 Rep : 127
| Subject: Re: To the females here...have you ever dated a man who... Mon Nov 14, 2011 2:09 am | |
| - AtownPeep wrote:
- Nope. But I have turned down guys who I suspected weren't.
May I ask why? Just curious. | |
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TPP …is a Power Member.
Join date : 2010-12-22 Posts : 1497 Rep : 69
| Subject: Re: To the females here...have you ever dated a man who... Mon Nov 14, 2011 3:24 am | |
| I have dated guys who were bi, not a big deal to me. But if they seem to be in the closet or don't want to be honest about their sexuality with me, i don't care for that. | |
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captainbryce …is a Power Member.
Join date : 2010-04-11 Location : California Posts : 2051 Rep : 127
| Subject: Re: To the females here...have you ever dated a man who... Mon Nov 14, 2011 11:30 am | |
| - TPP wrote:
- I have dated guys who were bi, not a big deal to me. But if they seem to be in the closet or don't want to be honest about their sexuality with me, i don't care for that.
I can understand that. That makes more sense to me. | |
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Nystyle709 ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
Join date : 2010-03-16 Location : New York Posts : 27030 Rep : 339
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FireIce918 …is Authorized.
Join date : 2010-06-22 Location : VA Posts : 855 Rep : 8
| Subject: Re: To the females here...have you ever dated a man who... Mon Nov 14, 2011 8:24 pm | |
| - Nystyle709 wrote:
Now, I have dated a guy with a tongue ring, but he was 100% straight. Yeah, three in three different colors would raise my eyebrows too.
I left out how he wanted to join the circus too! LMAO, he HAD to get the boot | |
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AtownPeep …is a Power Member.
Join date : 2010-01-31 Location : Atlanta, GA Posts : 1867 Rep : 39
| Subject: Re: To the females here...have you ever dated a man who... Wed Nov 16, 2011 6:49 pm | |
| - captainbryce wrote:
- May I ask why? Just curious.
Just too convoluted for my tastes to be a female involved with a male who isn't totally into females. I don't want that kind of drama or open ended questions. | |
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