Mature question about guys and...

Nystyle709 wrote:I'd raise an eyebrow. I don't see why a guy would want to use a dildo on himself. Ain't but two places to put it, and that doesn't scream hetero.

tmontyb wrote:

LOL!

The thing is sexuality is really not that black and white. If another man is NOT putting the dildo up there or maybe girl is doing it, I don't see anything gay about that.

I guess because people tend to live by labels, sometimes it's tough to look at the whole picture.......I guess.

Chris wrote:

tmontyb wrote: ...
The thing is sexuality is really not that black and white. If another man is NOT putting the dildo up there or maybe girl is doing it, I don't see anything gay about that.

I guess because people tend to live by labels, sometimes it's tough to look at the whole picture.......I guess.

Nystyle709 wrote:

This has nothing to do with living by labels. Is it normal for straight guys to want to be penetrate in the anus? It's not a matter of being gay because of who is doing it, it's WHY. Why would a straight man feel the need to have a dildo up his ass? If that's what floats your boat, fine, and you could very well not be gay....but don't look at me like I'm retarded for questioning it or being suspicious.

tmontyb wrote:


I think the question you should ask is why would ANYONE feel the need to put a dildo up their ass.

Well, I wouldn't know, I didn't ask. When I use my dildo, it doesn't go in my ass. I have no desire for it to be there. The question that was asked was would I find it suspicious for a straight man to be into that and I responded.

On the other hand I think it's completely normal for you to question it because most of society has a myopic view when it comes to sexuality as whole.

I'm not questioning it because I'm part of a society with myopic views towards sexuality, I'm questioning it because most straight guys don't have the desire for anal sex or play. If it's been proven otherwise that the majority do, I would like to see it.

There are straight guy out there that like ass play as there are women.

I'm sure there are. But that doesn't mean I'm wrong for raising the eyebrow.

My point is, I don't see why that has be restricted to gay men.

It doesn't have to be, but that's the general idea. Gay men like anal sex, straight men don't. There are exceptions to every rule, but it isn't limited thinking at all. Just like I'm sure there are gay men who don't like anal sex. Who don't like head, who rather be top, bottom, whatever. . It doesn't even matter at the end of the day. You do what you want.

RobbieFTW wrote:

I will just put it like this. . . it aint only gay guys that got prostates!!!