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    If your lover gave you permission to cheat.

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    Post by Chris Thu Dec 15, 2011 1:48 pm

    If your partner/S.O., whom you loved dearly and were wholly committed to, were unable to be intimate with you for whatever reason (maybe they are sick, have gone through something traumatic or just have lost all interest in sex) – but gave you their blessing to have sex on the side, would you?
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    Post by RedBedroom Thu Dec 15, 2011 2:01 pm

    No, not at all.
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    Post by Supernova Thu Dec 15, 2011 2:26 pm

    I can't think of anybody who would come to mind for it.
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    Post by Cheaps Thu Dec 15, 2011 2:49 pm

    NO! I couldn't disrespect someone I cared so much for like that.
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    Post by Shale Thu Dec 15, 2011 2:57 pm

    Well, guess I'll be the lone voice here to say that if there were no objections to having sex outside of the relationship then I probably would. (In fact I did).

    Sex can be gratuitous without a relationship, and a relationship is more than sex. The two need not be exclusive. Or so it has been in my experience.
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    Post by Bluesmama Thu Dec 15, 2011 11:23 pm

    I know how I'd react to this because my first husband, desperate to keep me from leaving him, actually proposed this. I was NOT interested.
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    Post by Marc™ Fri Dec 16, 2011 12:43 am

    Probably not....or I would avoid taking advantage of the offer for as long as possible.
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    Post by Nystyle709 Fri Dec 16, 2011 7:45 am

    Marc™ wrote:Probably not....or I would avoid taking advantage of the offer for as long as possible.

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    Post by wants2laugh Fri Dec 16, 2011 2:20 pm

    I had a really sick ex who had a muscle disorder. Whenever we had sex, his muscles would all tense up and cramp... he would be in pain for hours, sometimes he would vomit. He would swear the sex was worth the pain, but more often than not, I would wind up crying afterwards watching him writhe in pain.

    Because of this, sex was almost non existent. And yeah, I was loyal to him. but if this arrangement were proposed, i probably would have acted on it. everyone has needs
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    Post by gingersnaps Fri Dec 16, 2011 8:32 pm

    Marc™️ wrote:Probably not....or I would avoid taking advantage of the offer for as long as possible.

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