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RedBedroom …is a Chamber DEITY.
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| Subject: Should a huband/wife "forbid" their spouse from watching porn? Mon Feb 27, 2012 10:09 pm | |
| My take on this is someone who is anti-porn should discuss this before marriage.
But then there would be the instance where one would get into watching porn years after marrying.
So, does a spouse have the right to say "no way" to porn viewing? | |
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CeCe …is a Chamber DEITY.
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| Subject: Re: Should a huband/wife "forbid" their spouse from watching porn? Mon Feb 27, 2012 10:35 pm | |
| I think every spouse should be free to discuss their feelings & concerns. But "forbidding" is dangerous territory. Some people don't want to be treated like a child & will rebel. It's the kind of thing that could cause resentment that will lead to problems in other areas of the relationship. There should be a calm mature exchange of opinions, but in the end grown people should be able to make decisions for themselves. Truthfully not all porn is "bad", "evil" or "demeaning" as some people think. Maybe something the anti-porn spouse might consider is watching it together. They should never be forced or pressured into it but they might be surprised. As long as it's not an obsession that is damaging to the relationship I don't see a problem. But if that's the case there are issues there that go much deeper than watching porn. | |
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Alan Smithee ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
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| Subject: Re: Should a huband/wife "forbid" their spouse from watching porn? Mon Feb 27, 2012 11:12 pm | |
| about forbidding in general. | |
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RobbieFTW …is Being Fitted For a Crown.
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| Subject: Re: Should a huband/wife "forbid" their spouse from watching porn? Tue Feb 28, 2012 1:05 am | |
| You cant "forbid" an adult to do anything. Better to just make your feelings about why you dont like it known and hope they respect it enough to go along with it. | |
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Shale ...is a Chamber Royal.
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Marc™ …is a Chamber DEITY.
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| Subject: Re: Should a huband/wife "forbid" their spouse from watching porn? Tue Feb 28, 2012 4:56 am | |
| No. Unless they've got a porn addiction, I don't see the point in making it an issue. | |
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Chris Chamber Admin.
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| Subject: Re: Should a huband/wife "forbid" their spouse from watching porn? Tue Feb 28, 2012 1:38 pm | |
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Tony Marino …is a Global Moderator.
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| Subject: Re: Should a huband/wife "forbid" their spouse from watching porn? Tue Feb 28, 2012 2:04 pm | |
| Why, whats wrong with watching porn? | |
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