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Think back, centuries ago, when you were still as pure as snow; was your virginity something you were ever proud of? Do you think it's something that people should be proud of today?
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Is (prolonged) virginity something to be proud of?
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Re: Is (prolonged) virginity something to be proud of?
by Alan Smithee Sun Apr 15, 2012 7:59 am
"It is better to copulate than never."
People can take pride in whatever they want although perhaps some shouldn't be so proud if it's a case of no one wants to fuck them in the first place. I wouldn't ridicule anyone if that's their choice but I don't see it as that admirable either. "The second most preposterous notion is that copulation is inherently sinful."
People can take pride in whatever they want although perhaps some shouldn't be so proud if it's a case of no one wants to fuck them in the first place. I wouldn't ridicule anyone if that's their choice but I don't see it as that admirable either. "The second most preposterous notion is that copulation is inherently sinful."
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Re: Is (prolonged) virginity something to be proud of?
by Tony Marino Sun Apr 15, 2012 8:55 am
I lost mine at such an early age I never had time to really think about it. Yah I think its something to be proud of if you have held on to it for awhile.
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by Nystyle709 Sun Apr 15, 2012 9:17 am
I lost mine at 14....I didn't have it long enough to be "proud" of it. If that's what you want, then by all means....have at it and be proud of it. Nothing wrong with being a virgin. Unless you're past 30......
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by Forgiveness Man Sun Apr 15, 2012 10:16 am
Still have it and am very proud of it. I think keeping it as a choice is something to be very proud of. Why shouldn't it be something to be proud of? Kind of seems like asking if somebody can avoid getting addicted to coffee or alcohol cause they never drank it (or never eating all of those foods that are killing us lol) if it's something to be proud of. lol It's definitely something to be proud of. (And since most lose it so early, they'll never know.)
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by Alan Smithee Sun Apr 15, 2012 10:36 am
It's nothing to be especially proud of because there's nothing wrong with sex.
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by Alan Smithee Sun Apr 15, 2012 10:38 am
Nystyle709 wrote:I lost mine at 14....I didn't have it long enough to be "proud" of it. If that's what you want, then by all means....have at it and be proud of it. Nothing wrong with being a virgin. Unless you're past 30......
Don't worry, NY. I'm sure your later lovers didn't care if they didn't get your cherry. As long as they could play with the box it came in.
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Re: Is (prolonged) virginity something to be proud of?
by Nystyle709 Sun Apr 15, 2012 10:50 am
Alan Smithee wrote:
Don't worry, NY. I'm sure your later lovers didn't care if they didn't get your cherry. As long as they could play with the box it came in.
And they LOVED the box it came in.
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One of the things about being in the sexual revolution is that I have never encountered a virgin girl. Luckily, someone else took care of that bloody mess for me.
It is an ancient, anachronistic notion that puts special relevance to virginity (and only for females)
Most guys I know actively tried to end their inexperience and if they were yet to have sex would not admit to it. I was 19 and made a special trip to Mexico and paid a professional to give me my first experience.
It is an ancient, anachronistic notion that puts special relevance to virginity (and only for females)
Most guys I know actively tried to end their inexperience and if they were yet to have sex would not admit to it. I was 19 and made a special trip to Mexico and paid a professional to give me my first experience.
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Alan Smithee wrote:It's nothing to be especially proud of because there's nothing wrong with sex.
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by GrayWolf Sun Apr 15, 2012 3:29 pm
Why would anybody be proud to be a virgin? It's not that serious to me. You either have sex or you don't, it's not that much of an "accomplishment" worth boasting about either way.
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by RedBedroom Sun Apr 15, 2012 7:40 pm
I think young people should be proud of it. It's such a casual thing today that I suspect most don't have genuine feelings for the first person they slept with.
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I started fucking around too early to ponder whether or not it was something to be proud of. Meh. Whatever. Unless you have gorgeous people offering you sex on a regular basis, I don't know how "proud" I'd be of a commitment to abstain.
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Re: Is (prolonged) virginity something to be proud of?
by FireIce918 Sun Apr 15, 2012 10:18 pm
I was until I realized I was proud of it for the wrong reasons.
I used to think it made me better than other chicks, but at the same time I was very immature and naive. When I got older I realized that being a virgin didn't mean I had an edge on the competition. It just meant I was a virgin.
I used to think it made me better than other chicks, but at the same time I was very immature and naive. When I got older I realized that being a virgin didn't mean I had an edge on the competition. It just meant I was a virgin.
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by Tony Marino Mon Apr 16, 2012 11:26 am
Forgiveness Man wrote:Still have it and am very proud of it. I think keeping it as a choice is something to be very proud of. Why shouldn't it be something to be proud of? Kind of seems like asking if somebody can avoid getting addicted to coffee or alcohol cause they never drank it (or never eating all of those foods that are killing us lol) if it's something to be proud of. lol It's definitely something to be proud of. (And since most lose it so early, they'll never know.)
I agree with you Lil Bro, I wish I had the choice you have. Big Bro is very proud of you
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by Forgiveness Man Mon Apr 16, 2012 1:36 pm
Thanks Big Bro!Tony Marino wrote:
I agree with you Lil Bro, I wish I had the choice you have. Big Bro is very proud of you
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Re: Is (prolonged) virginity something to be proud of?
by Alan Smithee Mon Apr 16, 2012 2:10 pm
Funny how "prolonged" is most often associated with something unpleasant.
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by Nystyle709 Mon Apr 16, 2012 11:08 pm
Alan Smithee wrote:Funny how "prolonged" is most often associated with something unpleasant.
LOL, just wait until they actually do get some. They'll lose their minds.
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by FireIce918 Mon Apr 16, 2012 11:48 pm
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LOL, just wait until they actually do get some. They'll lose their minds.
It'll be the nut heard around the world....
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Re: Is (prolonged) virginity something to be proud of?
by tmontyb Tue Apr 17, 2012 8:35 am
If someone wants to prolong their virginity, it's their choice, but I don't agree with it.
I don't believe in "saving" oneself for marriage or that "right" person. I think it's a shame some people have been indoctrinated into thinking that sex is such a bad thing that it could only be done if you're married. Everyone is not sexually compatible and I believe you need to test the waters.
Anyway, sex is the one of the most natural acts in the world, why would on deprive themselves? I'm not saying screw everyone, but have fun with someone that you like and hey, even if you don't like them, there nothing wrong with a little carnal pleasure.
I agree that when someone virginal gives in, they are going to wonder why they wasted so much time.
I don't believe in "saving" oneself for marriage or that "right" person. I think it's a shame some people have been indoctrinated into thinking that sex is such a bad thing that it could only be done if you're married. Everyone is not sexually compatible and I believe you need to test the waters.
Anyway, sex is the one of the most natural acts in the world, why would on deprive themselves? I'm not saying screw everyone, but have fun with someone that you like and hey, even if you don't like them, there nothing wrong with a little carnal pleasure.
I agree that when someone virginal gives in, they are going to wonder why they wasted so much time.
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Re: Is (prolonged) virginity something to be proud of?
by tmontyb Tue Apr 17, 2012 8:36 am
Alan Smithee wrote:Funny how "prolonged" is most often associated with something unpleasant.
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Past a certain age, I begin to wonder if "prolonged" virginity is more a circumstance than choice. Personally I haven't known many virgins aged 20+ who were untouched solely because of conviction...
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