If there was chatter about some dude being gay....but there was no proof/confirmation....would you date him if he asked you out?

I might but I wouldn't sleep with him.

Supernova wrote:

I might but I wouldn't sleep with him.

I would do both. But then technically I guess he would be bi..unless he just made some special exception for me. But would it bother me? Nope.

Depends on what my own intuition told me. Honestly I haven't known any guy who was rumored to be gay who I didn't too suspect actually was. They say where there's smoke there's fire.

I met my best friend's boyfriend... and I told her... he's gay.... run. She laughed, "everyone says that!!! Why is that???" uh honey cause it is true!

On her wedding night, she and her hubby never left the wedding... they insisted on the entire bridal party going to a bar after the wedding.... then at 4am... her hubby invited me and my husband to stay with them in their room---- NOT a foursome... just to keep talking until we fell asleep! I told her "run... go get an annulment now!" she laughed again...

WHAT guy is gonna not want to go and bang his wife for hours after the wedding??? I dont get it.

Now it is 19yrs later... and she called and said, "He's gay with a bf, and we have a 5yr old!!! How could i not know???" CAUSE you didnt freakin listen!

AtownPeep wrote:

Depends on what my own intuition told me. Honestly I haven't known any guy who was rumored to be gay who I didn't too suspect actually was. They say where there's smoke there's fire.

This. He would have to hide it reeeeeeeally well cause if I can pick up on it, its a wrap. I think its borderline retarded for a straight woman to date a known gay or bisexual man, but oh well. Rock out.

He'd have to be willing to address them and convince me that they aren't true. It depends I guess on how much I believe the rumors.