hahahahhahaha.... most people would say "when it is sensual and slow and romantic" it is love.. anythign else is sex.
but im gonna tell ya... when my guy who knows EXACTLY the way i want it, and takes the time to do it right---even after being deployed for a year, then gets off a plane after traveling 2 days returning from the middle east... fulfills an actually "fantasy scene" that i had emailed him... and is STILL going after 3 hours... then takes a 2hr nap, gets started again.. then has to go to work for another 12hr day---
regardless of how wild or rough it might be... well... let's just say that nothing beats that!
and he does me that good cause he loves me----- and because he hasnt had it in a year! lol