i have learned that no matter who it is... i usually go out of my way, and then when i need help it isnt reciprocated. My brother will help me, but i need to ask him and sometimes repeatedly ask him so its like im begging... i hate that. For everything that i do for him, and the things he DID to me that i forgave him for... he should be considerate enough to help me when needed.
when it comes to my sister/bil... they have done so much for me, that i do what i can for them without asking. even if it is just picking up some cases of pepsi or a carton of cigarettes... i do that without expecting anything in return.. not something i dont want to... i wish i could do more for them! they are hurting bad now