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PostSubject: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you?   Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? EmptyTue Jun 19, 2012 1:32 am

If you someone you know walks into your zone and doesn't acknowledge or speak to you, do you say something to them about it?
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PostSubject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you?   Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? EmptyTue Jun 19, 2012 8:43 am

Don't know about an acquaintance, but I'd want a friend to at least wave, say hi or give me a head nod lol It's what I always do.
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PostSubject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you?   Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? EmptyTue Jun 19, 2012 11:23 am

Communication goes both ways. If they don't say something & I want to then I will. If they don't initiate a conversation, they may be preoccupied - why take offense.

I have been told I am rude because I don't do all the prescribed social amenities with acquaintances. I usually tell them that it is rude to admonish an adult on his manners and I do it in a tone that says, "you wanna see rude?"
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PostSubject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you?   Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? EmptyTue Jun 19, 2012 11:59 am

Not usually. I know that a lot of people don't recognize others outside of a certain setting, even if you've spoken face to face before.
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PostSubject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you?   Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? EmptyTue Jun 19, 2012 12:39 pm

Sometimes I will, depends on who it is.
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PostSubject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you?   Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? EmptyTue Jun 19, 2012 1:38 pm

Not really. If it's that deep, I'll speak to them.
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PostSubject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you?   Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? EmptyTue Jun 19, 2012 1:45 pm

Also, with me I am sometimes hesitant to acknowledge some acquaintances I know from other venues if others are around.

Like if I knew them when they were batshit crazy on a psych unit - do they really want me to go over and say Hi, when they may not want ppl they are with to know how they know me?

Or if it is a guy who was sexually intimate with me or we met at the nude beach - maybe he doesn't want to explain how he knows me.

So, I wait to see if they want to acknowledge me.
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PostSubject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you?   Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? EmptyTue Jun 19, 2012 1:47 pm

Sometimes I'm hoping they haven't seen me.
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PostSubject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you?   Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? EmptyTue Jun 19, 2012 1:54 pm

Alan Smithee wrote:
Sometimes I'm hoping they haven't seen me.
Don't worry, I won't walk over to you and say "Hey Al, that Lithium still holding you together?"
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Don't worry, I won't walk over to you and say "Hey Al, that Lithium still holding you together?"

Oh hi, Shale...I didn't see you standing there! big grin LOL, feel free. It'll give me a chance to ask if it still hurts when you pee Wink
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PostSubject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you?   Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? EmptyTue Jun 19, 2012 8:16 pm

Marc™ wrote:
Not really. If it's that deep, I'll speak to them.

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PostSubject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you?   Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? EmptyWed Jun 20, 2012 9:31 pm

Normally, it would be me being oblivious to seeing someone. So, I can't be offended when others make the same mistake.

That said, it is crazy awkward to stand around trying to make eye contact when it goes unnoticed.
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PostSubject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you?   Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? EmptyWed Jun 20, 2012 9:41 pm

I may, depends on my mood.
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