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Chris Chamber Admin.
Join date : 2010-01-30 Location : Oak Park, Michigan Posts : 23201 Rep : 330
| Subject: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? Tue Jun 19, 2012 1:32 am | |
| If you someone you know walks into your zone and doesn't acknowledge or speak to you, do you say something to them about it? | |
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CeCe …is a Chamber DEITY.
Join date : 2010-06-30 Posts : 11962 Rep : 326
| Subject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? Tue Jun 19, 2012 8:43 am | |
| Don't know about an acquaintance, but I'd want a friend to at least wave, say hi or give me a head nod lol It's what I always do. | |
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Shale ...is a Chamber Royal.
Join date : 2010-09-27 Location : Miami Beach Posts : 9699 Rep : 219
| Subject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? Tue Jun 19, 2012 11:23 am | |
| Communication goes both ways. If they don't say something & I want to then I will. If they don't initiate a conversation, they may be preoccupied - why take offense.
I have been told I am rude because I don't do all the prescribed social amenities with acquaintances. I usually tell them that it is rude to admonish an adult on his manners and I do it in a tone that says, "you wanna see rude?" | |
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Bluesmama …is a Power Member.
Join date : 2011-07-09 Location : Portland “Burbs” Posts : 3353 Rep : 43
| Subject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? Tue Jun 19, 2012 11:59 am | |
| Not usually. I know that a lot of people don't recognize others outside of a certain setting, even if you've spoken face to face before. | |
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Tony Marino …is a Global Moderator.
Join date : 2010-01-31 Location : New York Posts : 26786 Rep : 607
| Subject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? Tue Jun 19, 2012 12:39 pm | |
| Sometimes I will, depends on who it is. | |
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Marc™ …is a Chamber DEITY.
Join date : 2010-01-30 Location : Michigan Posts : 12006 Rep : 212
| Subject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? Tue Jun 19, 2012 1:38 pm | |
| Not really. If it's that deep, I'll speak to them. | |
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Shale ...is a Chamber Royal.
Join date : 2010-09-27 Location : Miami Beach Posts : 9699 Rep : 219
| Subject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? Tue Jun 19, 2012 1:45 pm | |
| Also, with me I am sometimes hesitant to acknowledge some acquaintances I know from other venues if others are around.
Like if I knew them when they were batshit crazy on a psych unit - do they really want me to go over and say Hi, when they may not want ppl they are with to know how they know me?
Or if it is a guy who was sexually intimate with me or we met at the nude beach - maybe he doesn't want to explain how he knows me.
So, I wait to see if they want to acknowledge me. | |
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Alan Smithee ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
Join date : 2010-09-03 Location : 40º44’18.33”N 73º58’31.82”W Posts : 25792 Rep : 381
| Subject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? Tue Jun 19, 2012 1:47 pm | |
| Sometimes I'm hoping they haven't seen me. | |
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Shale ...is a Chamber Royal.
Join date : 2010-09-27 Location : Miami Beach Posts : 9699 Rep : 219
| Subject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? Tue Jun 19, 2012 1:54 pm | |
| - Alan Smithee wrote:
- Sometimes I'm hoping they haven't seen me.
Don't worry, I won't walk over to you and say "Hey Al, that Lithium still holding you together?" | |
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Alan Smithee ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
Join date : 2010-09-03 Location : 40º44’18.33”N 73º58’31.82”W Posts : 25792 Rep : 381
| Subject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? Tue Jun 19, 2012 1:57 pm | |
| - Shale wrote:
Don't worry, I won't walk over to you and say "Hey Al, that Lithium still holding you together?" Oh hi, Shale...I didn't see you standing there! LOL, feel free. It'll give me a chance to ask if it still hurts when you pee | |
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Nystyle709 ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
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RedBedroom …is a Chamber DEITY.
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| Subject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? Wed Jun 20, 2012 9:31 pm | |
| Normally, it would be me being oblivious to seeing someone. So, I can't be offended when others make the same mistake.
That said, it is crazy awkward to stand around trying to make eye contact when it goes unnoticed. | |
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Cheaps ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
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| Subject: Re: Are you offended if an acquaintance doesn't greet you? Wed Jun 20, 2012 9:41 pm | |
| I may, depends on my mood. | |
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