Do you think it's proper to elaborate on to someone why they aren't your 'type?'

If someone isn't interested in the person fancying them, do you think it's cruel or insensitive for them to tell the person exactly why?

You don't have to elaborate unless of course they are pressuring you to do so.

Tony Marino wrote:You don't have to elaborate unless of course they are pressuring you to do so.

Beat me to it.

Alan Smithee wrote:
Beat me to it.

Not quite.

Not unless they press. Otherwise it's kind of rude.

It can be rude, but sometimes that is what it takes.

I think insecure people want to know. However, I think we all need to just understand that everyone seeks different types.

I only remembering telling someone he was too small and skinny for me after he was mean and called me names for not wanting him.

wants2laugh wrote:...I only remembering telling someone he was too small and skinny for me after he was mean and called me names for not wanting him.

As opposed to "large & thick?"

Shale wrote:

As opposed to "large & thick?"

It doesn't sound like she got that far to be able to tell that Otherwise she might have made an exception

That reminds me of a joke (and I'm not making any comparisons!) A little bird in the jungle had the hots for an elephant and he kept trying to persuade her to have sex with him. Finally she agreed so the little bird positioned himself behind her and started humping away. Just then a coconut fell from a tree and hit the elephant on the head. "Ouch" she cried. At that the little bird asked from behind, "I'm sorry,am I hurting you?"

RedBedroom wrote:It can be rude, but sometimes that is what it takes.

Thats if they don't take no for an answer.

I don't care if they ask or not--I don't have the patience to go over it. That's like asking why I prefer Honey Bunches of Oats with Almonds over Honey Bunches of Oats with Peaches...why the fuck would anybody care unless you're my spouse doing the grocery shopping LOL. For someone who just HAS to know why, I would tell him stop spending time being so thirsty and spend more time looking for someone who's interested.

Chris wrote:If someone isn't interested in the person fancying them, do you think it's cruel or insensitive for them to tell the person exactly why?

In general, yeah. But if they just refuse to accept my tact and annoyingly press me on it, then fuck it...I can't tolerate your teeth, your smell or the fact that you're only 5'2 and weigh 180 lbs.

Tried to be nice, but your pressed ass wouldn't let me, so there you go.