Drama with your S.O.'s ex.

Have you ever had drama with the ex of someone you were seeing?

Sort of.

Nope.

The most was running into them in public and seeing how bitter and uncomfortable they were at the sight of each other. Never had any Jerry Springer moments though.

Uh-uh

Nope. I don't play those kinds of games.

Sort of but not really. I was talking to this guy once who called himself being "still friends" with his ex. So we're talking and all the sudden she comes on the line, asking me questions and trying to evaluate me or something. I'm like "put him back on the phone" and when he got back I told him that wasn't cute. He thought it was.

No, can't say that I have.

Not really. I do adore Jay's ex. But when we first got together, she did pull some shit. But she just wasn't used to him still not being at her beck and call in the name of their daughter. Once she came back down to Earth, she has been so amazing to me.

Chris has a child with an ex that also graduated with the two of us. I havent seen her in 20 yrs... and she told people in our town that she was "hurt and upset" that we were friends in school, and I am now with her ex. She has been married to Chris' ex best friend for 15yrs.. and she is bitchin to people??? Our class reunion is coming up... so i can only imagine where this will go. drama drama drama

Your reunion is gonna give you grey hair, doll.

U have noooo idea!

Sorry I haven't logged on this week. I will message you soon...have not been in a good head-space this week.

I just remembered that a little after my wife and I started dating when I was in college we were at a party at a hall and a girl who had broken up with me was also there. I found out from some of my friend's dates that when Deb went to the lady's room, my ex went in too and stood there giving Deb the stink eye. They stood there waiting to pounce on her if she tried any shit. That's the closest I've come to any ex-drama.

The funny thing was Debby wasn't even aware of it until later. She had no idea who my ex was.

I have been involved with men who were going through drama with their exes, but it wasn't my business so I stayed out of it. Their rhetoric never trickled down to me personally.

The only "drama" I ever had was seeing a guy who was still friends with his ex. It wasn't drama really but it wasn't always comfortable. They used to hang out CONSTANTLY but I knew that there was no way I could prevent that so I just let it go and accepted that if something happened between them that I shouldn't be surprised. To my knowledge nothing did, but who knows.

Oh yeah.

I have been with my boyfriend for over 5 years, on and off for 8. Known him nearly 15 years. We have a past, lol.

Well Tony dated a girl that I actually liked... until she made out with a dude in front of him and acted all "I didnt do shit!" He took off at the party with me pissed off and I consoled him while thinking "Dammit why arent we back together!" Well he dumped her, and a month later we started going out. Been together ever since.

Well one weekend Tony goes out of town and I ask our friend Ben to hang out. The ex that Tony dated told him that I was going behind his back and trying to fuck Ben. I guess I wasn't allowed to have friends?!?! Keep in mind, this chick was like 32. And pulling this shit. So she caused major issues despite nothing happening. About a month later, she told Tony "Why don't you fuck me to prove a point to Jenn." Yeah... that bitch was shut down REAL fast. Tony and I no longer talk to her. But my god she caused so many issues, more than being crazy for me just wanting to be friends with a male.

Otherwise, our ex's like each other and we are all friends. So no issues there. Oh wait.... Tony did have an ex that flipped her shit when we got together... forgot about her. That's a LONG story though! lol

Chris wrote:Have you ever had drama with the ex of someone you were seeing?

The bitch stalked me, called my phone and showed up at my house with "presents."

The next time I talked to her I broke it down real simple--she needs to grow up and cut that shit out b/c that's how parents end up picking out caskets.

And I dropped his ass. Drama showing up at my doorstep...fuck no. Ain't no nicca worth that, and the sex was whack anyway.

Alan Smithee wrote:I just remembered that a little after my wife and I started dating when I was in college we were at a party at a hall and a girl who had broken up with me was also there. I found out from some of my friend's dates that when Deb went to the lady's room, my ex went in too and stood there giving Deb the stink eye. They stood there waiting to pounce on her if she tried any shit. That's the closest I've come to any ex-drama.

Your story reminds me of a time I went to one of my old single girl hang out bars with Jay. My ex, Bill, walked up to me when I was at the jukebox and put his arm around me, but didn't touch my back. Made Jay nuts. I had no clue Bill did that but Jay detailed it with a lot of disdain!

i went with a guy who had kids with an ex wife. They were married for 10 yrs. However, i knew him before she did... and we had always been friends. After they divorced, he and i got together for about a year. She was fine with me... but she was crazy when it came to the kids. I once gave the kids $30 to buy a gift for him for father's day-- the daughter was 12 and said their was particular shirt he wanted. After the kids gave it to him, he was all happy and excited. The ex wife then called him up and said, "Next time, tell your girlfriend that she needs to drive them to the store for your gift---im not doing it again." somehow in this scenario, he also turned me into the bad guy--- go figure!

Yeah I have had some drama with former BF's of girls I was out with. I'm like dude don't get mad at me cause you weren't compelling enough for her.