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    Ending a friendship

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    Post by Chris Mon Oct 22, 2012 1:26 pm

    If you've ever ended a friendship, did you tell the person directly that it wasn't working out, or did you just pull back from them and hope they would get the message?
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    Post by CeCe Mon Oct 22, 2012 1:32 pm

    I don't do drama so it would depend on the person. There's no point in talking if they're going to go drama llama on me. Usually if it's reached that point we probably both already realize it. Unless they're done some real damage I try to be civil.
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    Post by Alan Smithee Mon Oct 22, 2012 1:33 pm

    I can't recall one that ended because one of us pissed the other one off. Usually we just drift apart.
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    Post by Tony Marino Mon Oct 22, 2012 1:34 pm

    I told them straight out that its not going to work out as friends and peace be with you and good luck in life.
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    Post by Cheaps Mon Oct 22, 2012 4:54 pm

    I told person directly what the issue was, and said I don't hate or dislike you, we just need to go separate ways.
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    Post by CaffeinePlease Mon Oct 22, 2012 8:43 pm

    I tend to drift from the person and hope they get the message. At that point, I feel I've been done wrong by that person and don't particularly care if they feel wronged.
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    Post by Nystyle709 Tue Oct 23, 2012 12:14 am

    The latter.
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    Post by RedBedroom Tue Oct 23, 2012 8:59 pm

    There's been a couple and I didn't say my peace to all of them.
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    Post by Nhaiyel Sat Oct 27, 2012 12:40 pm

    Chris wrote:If you've ever ended a friendship, did you tell the person directly that it wasn't working out, or did you just pull back from them and hope they would get the message?

    I've done both.

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