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If a woman gives it up on the first night, is she a slut?
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If a woman gives it up on the first night, is she a slut?
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AtownPeep- …is a Power Member.
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It depends but it's not a good look.
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For me it is according to if it is a daily or weekly thing. If she gives it up the first night to just anyone and everyone yes she is a slut but if it is the first time no but it does make her look very slutty and if she gave it up once she will do it again and then she will be a full fledged slut.
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I have had sex on the first date and never saw them again after that, and I've had sex on the first date and wound up in a 2 year relationship with them. Maybe this goes off book because I'm not a woman, but the point is the same. Sometimes the chemistry between folks is just there immediately, so it depends.
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There goes those judgmental words again. If a woman COMMONLY has one night stands and sex on the first date, then maybe "slut" would apply but if like JB said there is this one instance where she's finding herself having chemistry with the guy that first date and she sleeps with him, that that doesn't automatically make her a slut.
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She's either a slut or desperate but the two don't have to exclude each other either.
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I know a couple that's been married for about 15 years and have admitted that they had sex on the night of their first date. They are just as happy and in love as ever. It depends on the two people and their set of beliefs. But that behavior is not for everyone. Besides that, it's not just on the woman. If you give her the side-eye for giving it up on the first date, you need to give the man the side-eye too.
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If this is a habit of hers, then yeah....but if giving it up the first night isn't something that she usually does, then we can defer labeling her a slut.
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Marc wrote:If this is a habit of hers, then yeah....but if giving it up the first night isn't something that she usually does, then we can defer labeling her a slut.
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Marc wrote:If this is a habit of hers, then yeah....but if giving it up the first night isn't something that she usually does, then we can defer labeling her a slut.
ITA.
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I agree with Marc also. If it is habitual, then maybe she needs to take a look at her decision making process.
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Another for what Marc said.
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If I had to answer this question 10 years ago I probably would have said yes or maybe, but now I say no.
If someone wants to just get freak on, I say go for it.Times of sexual repression are over (for some we know it isn't), plus I would want to be a hypocrite knowing that I've done it on first dates in the past. Yes, I'm a man, but does that make it any better?
So....no I don't.
If someone wants to just get freak on, I say go for it.Times of sexual repression are over (for some we know it isn't), plus I would want to be a hypocrite knowing that I've done it on first dates in the past. Yes, I'm a man, but does that make it any better?
So....no I don't.
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Ima just not water it down and say yes. Some may call it not being sexually repressed, I call it being easy.
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Yes. Yes, she is.
And the man is a stud, of course.
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And the man is a stud, of course.
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^^^^Nah, he's a manho.
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I agree.Marc wrote:If this is a habit of hers, then yeah....but if giving it up the first night isn't something that she usually does, then we can defer labeling her a slut.
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