If it turned out you were dating a transexual, what would you do?

If the person you're with revealed that they are a post-OP transsexual, meaning that they have all of their new opposite gender plumbing installed and operational, would you continue the relationship?

I guess the PC thing would be so say yes or I don't know, but my answer is no. Not into drag queens or kings.

You mean after I get done doing this? I doubt it would continue.

Never been in that situation but it would probably depend on how I felt about them. The "operational" part would probably play a big part for me. That's still problematic in gender reassignment & one of the reasons for not taking the surgery that far.

CeCe wrote:Never been in that situation but it would probably depend on how I felt about them. The "operational" part would probably play a big part for me. That's still problematic in gender reassignment & one of the reasons for not taking the surgery that far.

Since I swing both ways, the plumbing would not be a problem to get used to.

I met a person at the nude beach who looked female from the waist up, with breasts, cute face and long hair but had the male parts. She (and that is what I felt she was) told me that she didn't want to lose the sexual sensation that currently has to be lost with the surgery.

My wife once told me I could hook up with a post op tranny as long as I took notes and told her about it.

idk... i would probably dump them. but it might depend on WHEN they told me. I think i would be really mad and hurt if i found out later rather than sooner.

As sexually provocative as i like to believe i am, i was a little taken back by a guy i was dating who told me he was bi. i never expected it to bother me... BUT.... i think it etched in my self esteem a little. whenever i saw him looking at a guy i was wondering if he wanted him. I can hold my own with any breast man LOL... but how do i compete with dick? i mean... from experience i can tell u.. a toy is not the same so it isnt even like i could use a strap on LOL

so i think both of these scenarios is one of those "until it happens, you just dont know"

No.

BTW W2L, you know what I find really interesting?

"strap on" spelled backward seems so appropriate.

Hell to the nah.

That would be a picture of a relationship now based on a lie, now wouldn't it?

Forgiveness Man wrote:That would be a picture of a relationship now based on a lie, now wouldn't it?

I have nothing against a transsexual but its not my thing either.

Chris wrote:If the person you're with revealed that they are a post-OP transsexual, meaning that they have all of their new opposite gender plumbing installed and operational, would you continue the relationship?

No I wouldn't. That's something that should be disclosed immediately. Before the first date.

If it turned out you were dating a transexual, what would you do?

If the person you're with revealed that they are a post-OP transsexual, meaning that they have all of their new opposite gender plumbing installed and operational, would you continue the relationship?

Nope.

I hear trannies give the best head tho LOL

I would definitely want to be given the consideration to be informed before any physical relationship occured. But like tmontyb, I would probably be politically incorrect and decline. Doesn't mean we couldn't be friends.

I think I would lose interest.

well... im thinking about this... so--- as a woman, having a partner who THINKS like a woman and has a dick would probably be really cool. I mean, if he was considerate, bought presents, and was giving in bed... how bad could it be? PLUS.. now im wondering if they allow them to pick penis size??? LOL kinda like when you choose the nose you want LOL you know that no one is going to say, "give me a small penis"... they will want a huge one

wants2laugh wrote:well... im thinking about this... so--- as a woman, having a partner who THINKS like a woman...

But "he" doesn't think like a woman. That's why he got the operation in the first place.