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Chris Chamber Admin.
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| Subject: '9 Things you should never do while having sex' Tue Jan 29, 2013 1:28 am | |
| Are you guilty of any of these? http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2013-01-22/man-woman/29747467_1_partner-climax-kiss - Quote :
- 9 Things you should never do while having sex
TNN Jan 22, 2013, 11.52AM IST
(Nine must-avoid sex goof…)
When you're in bed with your lover, the last thing you want to do is turn them off. That said, here are a few common blunders that you should not commit.
1. Not kissing Believe it or not, many people (and this includes women) don't kiss their partner when they're having sex. Why? Perhaps because the positioning doesn't allow for it or they are too eager to climax and feel that it might break the rhythm. Nevertheless, it is highly recommended that you make an effort to kiss your partner during the act - it will only add to the experience.
2. Biting before your partner's ready While many people enjoy an aggressive partner, biting any part of their body before they are aroused may lead to pain and discomfort (and might even lessen the chances of any further action ) or simply scare them off. So make sure your partner is fully excited before you bite their ear, shoulders, neck or any other part of their body.
3. Ignoring everything but sexualised parts Genitals are great, no doubt, but you should definitely pay attention to other parts of your lover's body and focus for some time on their entire body - knees, wrists, back and stomach are highly erogenous zones for men as well as women. Gently caressing these areas will help excite your partner further; in turn, increasing the chances of them pleasuring you back.
4. Putting your weight on your partner Even if you're a girl! It's okay to lose yourself in the moment every once in a while and go crazy on your lover. But when you're lying on top of them, you have to be careful not to drop your weight on them. Chocking them or hindering their ability to breathe will anyway kill the moment and any chances of some good action.
5. Climaxing too soon/ too late This one is especially for men. You need to have good control on your muscles to ensure that you can ejaculate at an appropriate time. Too soon and you may leave your partner unsatisfied; too late and it might leave your partner feeling as if they're pumping iron at the gym. To avoid this, spend a lot more time on foreplay (this will help men as well as women). If you take too long and can only ejaculate via manual stimulation, do your best to get your partner to orgasm and then they can return you the favour.
6. Not warning your partner before you climax If you're going to let go - and this applies even to women - whether during oral sex or intercourse, you need to tell your partner beforehand. Something as simple as "I'm going to let go," will suffice. Your partner deserves to know.
7. Treating sex like porn Although some couples enjoy having raunchy sex, you'd be wise to talk to your partner before you engage in such behaviour. If you begin being nasty with your lover without knowing if they like it first, chances are the scenario won't end on a happy note.
8. Staying quiet Do you like to hear it when your partner is having a good time? So pay them the same respect and speak up when you're enjoying yourself. Something as simple as a little moan, or even saying something like, "that feels so good," will encourage them and educate them further on your moan zones.
9. Mechanical act It may feel comfortable to you to pump away like you do at the gym, but you'll quickly discover that most people don't enjoy such an act. Mix it up a little bit; go fast at times, then slowly. Be creative and you'll find yourself enjoying some variation too. | |
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Tony Marino …is a Global Moderator.
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| Subject: Re: '9 Things you should never do while having sex' Tue Jan 29, 2013 3:57 pm | |
| I have been guilty of number 6 a couple of times | |
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Cheaps ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
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| Subject: Re: '9 Things you should never do while having sex' Tue Jan 29, 2013 4:33 pm | |
| Nope...I've been on the other end to a few of these though. | |
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Impact …is a Power Member.
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| Subject: Re: '9 Things you should never do while having sex' Tue Jan 29, 2013 4:38 pm | |
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- 6. Not warning your partner before you climax
If you're going to let go - and this applies even to women - whether during oral sex or intercourse, you need to tell your partner beforehand. Something as simple as "I'm going to let go," will suffice. Your partner deserves to know. I don't think I've ever phrased it that politely. It's usually "I'M GONNA CUM...!" | |
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Shale ...is a Chamber Royal.
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| Subject: Re: '9 Things you should never do while having sex' Tue Jan 29, 2013 7:45 pm | |
| I guess this is for young clueless ppl but sounds too formal to me. (How British)
Of course I had an older mentor when I was young, who told me "I'm Under Here!" meaning stop with the mechanical pile driver.
Yeah, don't bite me on the shoulder. DO NOT pinch my nipples - EVER! I tell this to ppl especially those guys with hard stick up nipples (And I try to pinch theirs to their satisfaction but usually can't pinch as hard as they like)
Clawing my back while we are having orgasm is fine - even a little blood.
I enjoy hearing the throes of passion, even those who are embarrassingly loud (Sometime expect the cops to be banging on the door) However, I am personally more reserved. But you can tell I'm enjoying myself by the breathing and occasional moan.
I never tell someone I am cumming unless they are doing oral so they have a choice whether to eat my cum or not. You can usually tell by the thrusting, moaning and gripping when someone is cumming. Or, by the cursing and screaming. | |
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| Subject: Re: '9 Things you should never do while having sex' Thu Jan 31, 2013 9:30 pm | |
| I was going to say text. But apparently this is a serious thread lol | |
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Alan Smithee ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
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| Subject: Re: '9 Things you should never do while having sex' Thu Jan 31, 2013 9:42 pm | |
| CeCe, when I saw your new signature, I thought D.D. had died. then I saw the dates. Phew! | |
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Alan Smithee ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
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| Subject: Re: '9 Things you should never do while having sex' Thu Jan 31, 2013 9:47 pm | |
| - CeCe wrote:
- I was going to say text. But apparently this is a serious thread lol
This thread lost all chance of that for me when Tony confessed to his sneak attacks. (I hope my nephew doesn't put anyone's eye out!) | |
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| Subject: Re: '9 Things you should never do while having sex' Thu Jan 31, 2013 11:11 pm | |
| - Alan Smithee wrote:
- CeCe, when I saw your new signature, I thought D.D. had died. then I saw the dates. Phew!
It really does give that impression at first glance doesn't it? | |
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| Subject: Re: '9 Things you should never do while having sex' Fri Feb 01, 2013 6:20 am | |
| I have never said "im cumming"... and chris never warned me.. intercourse or oral---cum doesnt bother me LOL when he is done he just says "SSSWWWEEEEEEETTTT" lol
The neighbor upstairs apparently screams to her partner that she is about to cum. One night she screamed for like an hour "MAKE ME CUM!! MAKE ME CUM" i was so tempted to hand her a vibrator and say, "Whitney, meet BOB. If it hasnt happened in the past hour, it isnt going to!" lol | |
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| Subject: Re: '9 Things you should never do while having sex' Fri Feb 01, 2013 11:03 am | |
| I'm guilty of not kissing sometimes. Sometimes I just don't want to be bothered. | |
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