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    Post by Chris Sun Mar 14, 2010 10:47 am

    Are you comfortable talking to complete strangers and how often do you strike up conversations with people you don't know?
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    Post by Tony Marino Mon Mar 15, 2010 1:59 pm

    Sure I am comfortable talking to strangers. I don't do it on a daily basis, depends on the situation I am in. Commuting to the City everyday gives grand opportunity to talk and joke with strangers on a daily basis.
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    Post by Tony Marino Mon Mar 15, 2010 2:00 pm

    Chris wrote:Are you comfortable talking to complete strangers and how often do you strike up conversations with people you don't know?

    Im talking to you now aren't I??? Smile Smile Smile Smile
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    Post by JM130ELM Mon Mar 15, 2010 2:09 pm

    Chris wrote:Are you comfortable talking to complete strangers and how often do you strike up conversations with people you don't know?

    No and not very often. I will chat with anybody who up and talks to me but I'm not comfortable just striking up conversations with people I don't know.
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    Post by Jason B. Mon Mar 15, 2010 6:58 pm

    I'm very uber social so I'm very comfortable striking up conversations with people. Most of my friends are my friends because I said something to them first.
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    Post by RedBedroom Mon Mar 15, 2010 10:05 pm

    I am very social. But I wasn't always this way. I used to be way to shy to strike up conversation with strangers. Now, I am probably open to a fault if anything!
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    Post by stavdash Mon Mar 15, 2010 10:12 pm

    JM130ELM wrote:
    Chris wrote:Are you comfortable talking to complete strangers and how often do you strike up conversations with people you don't know?

    No and not very often. I will chat with anybody who up and talks to me but I'm not comfortable just striking up conversations with people I don't know.

    Same here. Provided that I don't detect some kind of red flag that tells me not to, I will casually chat with a stranger who engages me in conversation. However, I am not really one to strike up one myself.
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    Post by RobbieFTW Tue Mar 16, 2010 6:19 am

    Yes and all the time. Sometimes you run into standoffish those people that wont really say much back or give you a "WHY ARE YOU TALKING TO ME?" look but I think for the most part people appreciate it others engage them in conversation. They just dont like making the 1st move. I love talking to people I dont know. I think it gives me more social skills and makes me good at reading different kinds of people.
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    Post by Chris Mon Oct 03, 2011 8:49 am

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    Post by CeCe Mon Oct 03, 2011 8:59 am

    I've never been the social type but that's something I've found very easy to do especially lately.
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    Post by Nystyle709 Mon Oct 03, 2011 9:36 am

    I might make a comment about something that would spark a light conversation....but I don't go up to complete strangers and start yapping.
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    Post by Shale Mon Oct 03, 2011 9:39 am

    I'm pretty comfortable with talking to ppl I don't know. Taking long train trips I often socialize with strangers in the club car & even on bus trips you meet ppl hanging around the stations waiting miserably with you - so there is a commonality.
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    Post by Supernova Mon Oct 03, 2011 10:08 am

    Nystyle709 wrote:I might make a comment about something that would spark a light conversation....but I don't go up to complete strangers and start yapping.


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    Post by Tony Marino Mon Oct 03, 2011 11:30 am

    Im comfortable with it. Sometimes I strike up conversations with people on the trains and stores.
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    Post by Bluesmama Mon Oct 03, 2011 1:09 pm

    I deal heavily with the public everyday as a receptionist in a govrnment building, so when I leave for the day I am "SO done" talking to people. When I sit in the bus or light rail I just want to be left alone.

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    Post by Alan Smithee Mon Oct 03, 2011 1:19 pm

    I'm usually comfortable talking with starngers and I might be the first to speak but not just randomly about the weather, etc.
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    Post by Shale Mon Oct 03, 2011 1:26 pm

    Alan Smithee wrote:I'm usually comfortable talking with starngers and I might be the first to speak but not just randomly about the weather, etc.

    Nice Rack!! ? blank stare @ you
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    Post by Alan Smithee Mon Oct 03, 2011 1:42 pm

    Opa Shale wrote:

    Nice Rack!! ? blank stare @ you

    Eh, a bit too random.
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    Post by GrayWolf Mon Oct 03, 2011 4:28 pm

    Don't have a problem with it but it's better when the other person seems nice.

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