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    If a woman tells her BF that she is celibate and plans to stay that way...

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    Post by JM130ELM Sun Mar 21, 2010 4:35 am

    Would he be wrong to get sex from somewhere else?
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    Post by stavdash Sun Mar 21, 2010 8:21 am

    Yes.
    Next question?
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    Post by Nystyle709 Sun Mar 21, 2010 11:29 am

    Pretty much. Dead wrong. If that's not something you can handle, then she don't need to be your girlfriend. I heard Jordin Sparks and her boyfriend broke up recently because of this very same issue.
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    Post by AtownPeep Sun Mar 21, 2010 12:24 pm

    ^ Ditto. If one half of the relationship can't abide by the others unflinching abstinence, then the logical thing to do would be to break up. Not cheat.
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    Post by FightSleep Sun Mar 21, 2010 1:17 pm

    Yeah it's wrong. If he can't handle her relationship guidelines, then he should quit her.
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    Post by Impact Sun Mar 21, 2010 2:15 pm

    Most women who say things like that are only doing it to either test themselves or protect themselves from a guy whose character they don't trust. Once she's in love with him and his devotion her pledge to stay abstinent is gonna start weakening.
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    Post by CatEyes10736 Sun Mar 21, 2010 2:50 pm

    JM130ELM wrote:Would he be wrong to get sex from somewhere else?

    He would be totally wrong to do that. It would still be CHEATING. If he can't deal with her abstaining from sex, then the more logical solution is clear: walk away. I also agree w/Impact. Many women (especially those who aren't virgins) who declare celibacy within the confines of a relationship are more doing it to see how sincere the relationship is.
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    Post by Nhaiyel Sun Mar 21, 2010 7:34 pm

    Of course. I take it you jest. He has not just one, but two, hands.
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    Post by SecHandNews Sun Mar 21, 2010 9:48 pm

    Cheating is cheating. If her celibacy puts that much of a crimp in his style that he has to look elsewhere for what he isn't getting out of that relationship, then he should just end things. They aren't on the same wavelength.
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    Post by RiteDiva Wed Mar 24, 2010 3:53 am

    Hell yes.

    He can wait until she's ready, or dump her. Those are the only two options alloted to him that won't make him an ass.
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    Post by Wadsworth Sun Mar 28, 2010 8:05 pm

    Yeah he'd be wrong to do that but it's lame to be in a relationship and still have to masturbate as much as you did when you were single.
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    Post by Supernova Mon Aug 30, 2010 3:44 pm

    Well then the answer to that is to leave that relationship and find a woman who doesn't plan to be celibate. It's not rocket science.
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    Post by Forgiveness Man Mon Aug 30, 2010 6:04 pm

    Heck yes if it. If you got issues with her pledge, have the balls to leave her instead of trying to have it both ways.
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    Post by TSJFan4Ever Mon Aug 30, 2010 9:44 pm

    Yup. If he can't handle being with a girl who wants to be celibate, he needs to find someone else. Otherwise, he's nothing but a scummy cheater.
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    Post by BlackPantherGod Tue Aug 31, 2010 1:49 pm

    I can't foresee a romantic relationship lasting very long without sex anyway.

    Sex is an integral part of any relationship. Physical intimacy is part and parcel of any long-lasting romantic attachment.
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    Post by Alan Smithee Sat Sep 11, 2010 5:21 am

    Can I assume this refers to a couple who are supposed to be, what's the word...exclusive? Then yes, it's cheating and if they aren't on the same page about something like that then they shouldn't be together in the firat place.

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