If you fantasize about "weird" things...

Does that mean that you secretly want to do those weird things? I have some pretty crazy fantasies but I don't think I would ever act them out. Well I KNOW I wouldn't, lol.

But should I be worried that I fantasize about them, or is that "normal"?

I'm not talking about like murdering someone or molesting a kid or anything awful like that. I don't think that any of it is illegal...Some of it is impossible, all of it is legal, and all of it is unlikely.

I used to have this weird fantasy of being in my bed while it violently rain stormed, and my bed was outside in the backyard....getting drenched. I, however, am under a bevy of thick blankets and so the rain never manages to seep through to wet me. Meanwhile my face is covered by some sort of box with air holes, so my face doesn't get wet either, despite my taking in the wetish wind. So I'm basically defying the harsh weather, completely unscathed by its attempt to fuck with me.

Marc™ wrote:I used to have this weird fantasy of being in my bed while it violently rain stormed, and my bed was outside in the backyard....getting drenched. I, however, am under a bevy of thick blankets and so the rain never manages to seep through to wet me. Meanwhile my face is covered by some sort of box with air holes, so my face doesn't get wet either, despite my taking in the wetish wind. So I'm basically defying the harsh weather, completely unscathed by its attempt to fuck with me.

That's an interesting one. So that made you feel like you were strong because the weather couldn't get to you?

As long as they don't involve harming someone, fantasies are completely normal. We all do it to one extent or another. Some of us just get a little more "out there" than a lot of people. But that's ok too.

CeCe wrote:As long as they don't involve harming someone, fantasies are completely normal. We all do it to one extent or another. Some of us just get a little more "out there" than a lot of people. But that's ok too.

That's good to know. I think that I fantasize about things that are impossible BECAUSE they are impossible, maybe. Then I don't have to worry about if I actually want to do it?

Are you talking about "sexual" fantasies?

captainbryce wrote:Are you talking about "sexual" fantasies?

yeah...like say, I'm dtd with Shia Lebouf and his mom is telling him what to do...Or I'm dtd with a pirate who is not very nice, or with Legolas from TLOTR and he's got a vibrating...Well you get the picture.

Like totally strange scenarios?

thinking about it when I'm not "in the moment" I think they are actually hilarious and my husband is like "lets act it out" but I'm like "NO WAY" because I think I would be laughing the whole time.