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| | Subject: Have you ever unwittingly discovered that someone you knew was gay/bi? Tue Apr 19, 2011 9:32 am | |
| Have you ever found out someone you knew was gay, or bisexual, without it actually coming from them? | |
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| | Subject: Re: Have you ever unwittingly discovered that someone you knew was gay/bi? Tue Apr 19, 2011 9:41 am | |
| Repeatedly. Particularly during high school. | |
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| | Subject: Re: Have you ever unwittingly discovered that someone you knew was gay/bi? Tue Apr 19, 2011 9:55 am | |
| Yep and it didn't matter one bit. | |
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| | Subject: Re: Have you ever unwittingly discovered that someone you knew was gay/bi? Tue Apr 19, 2011 10:44 am | |
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| | Subject: Re: Have you ever unwittingly discovered that someone you knew was gay/bi? Tue Apr 19, 2011 1:20 pm | |
| Not really and I need to be clear on this next part. I wouldn’t take it as gospel if someone did tell me about a third party’s sexuality. Not because I think there’s anything wrong with being gay but because even in this day and age some people still attache a stigma to it (I know - hard to believe!) so I wouldn’t necessarily trust that the person telling me wasn’t just trying to spread what they thought was a hurtful rumor. | |
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| | Subject: Re: Have you ever unwittingly discovered that someone you knew was gay/bi? Tue Apr 19, 2011 2:25 pm | |
| Through the grapevine, I learned from a friend of mine who heard it from a gay friend of hers that this boy who tried very hard to get my phone number when we were in high school was spotted at a gay bar. | |
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| | Subject: Re: Have you ever unwittingly discovered that someone you knew was gay/bi? Tue Apr 19, 2011 6:35 pm | |
| I have cousins who are gay but they never officially said it. Everyone knows though. I had a co-worker who I thought was gay and I'm pretty sure I'm right even though he never officially said it either. They pretty much don't have to. It's obvious. | |
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Shale
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| | Subject: Re: Have you ever unwittingly discovered that someone you knew was gay/bi? Tue Apr 19, 2011 6:42 pm | |
| - alan smithee wrote:
- ... I wouldn’t take it as gospel if someone did tell me about a third party’s sexuality. ... I wouldn’t necessarily trust that the person telling me wasn’t just trying to spread what they thought was a hurtful rumor.
When discussing other guys' sexual orientation, I don't like to make assumptions in this day of "Metrosexuals." I usually use the disclaimer "he hasn't sucked my cock so I wouldn't know." | |
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Alan Smithee
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| | Subject: Re: Have you ever unwittingly discovered that someone you knew was gay/bi? Tue Apr 19, 2011 8:49 pm | |
| - Shale wrote:
- I usually use the disclaimer "he hasn't sucked my cock so I wouldn't know."
 A valid system! | |
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| | Subject: Re: Have you ever unwittingly discovered that someone you knew was gay/bi? Tue Apr 19, 2011 11:17 pm | |
| - Shale wrote:
- alan smithee wrote:
- ... I wouldn’t take it as gospel if someone did tell me about a third party’s sexuality. ... I wouldn’t necessarily trust that the person telling me wasn’t just trying to spread what they thought was a hurtful rumor.
When discussing other guys' sexual orientation, I don't like to make assumptions in this day of "Metrosexuals." I usually use the disclaimer "he hasn't sucked my cock so I wouldn't know."  Probably the best way to consider the situation. | |
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| | Subject: Re: Have you ever unwittingly discovered that someone you knew was gay/bi? Mon Jun 25, 2012 12:01 pm | |
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| | Subject: Re: Have you ever unwittingly discovered that someone you knew was gay/bi? Mon Jun 25, 2012 2:40 pm | |
| Still no (according to Shale's system) | |
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| | Subject: Re: Have you ever unwittingly discovered that someone you knew was gay/bi? Mon Jun 25, 2012 2:46 pm | |
| lol yup. a friend of mine from college who I am facebook friends with (and on there he list he is interested in women and has TONS of female friends and pics of him with women. . . facebook playboy). Well i found him on manhunt too. LOL
Didnt say anything tho. | |
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| | Subject: Re: Have you ever unwittingly discovered that someone you knew was gay/bi? Mon Jun 25, 2012 2:49 pm | |
| - RobbieFTW wrote:
- lol yup. a friend of mine from college who I am facebook friends with (and on there he list he is interested in women and has TONS of female friends and pics of him with women. . . facebook playboy). Well i found him on manhunt too. LOL
Didnt say anything tho. Don't you think it would have been fun to let him know you knew? Just to make him sweat a bit LOL. | |
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| | Subject: Re: Have you ever unwittingly discovered that someone you knew was gay/bi? Mon Jun 25, 2012 2:53 pm | |
| I soooooooooooo wanna say something but i am not that close to him and think if i do he might unfriend me or something. LOL
I get the feeling he doesnt wanna get caught cause his facebook and his manhunt profiles are SO polar opposite but its def him behind both cause he posted NUDES. lol He is very very "down low" i can tell. | |
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Tony Marino
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| | Subject: Re: Have you ever unwittingly discovered that someone you knew was gay/bi? Mon Jun 25, 2012 2:59 pm | |
| - RobbieFTW wrote:
- I soooooooooooo wanna say something but i am not that close to him and think if i do he might unfriend me or something. LOL
I get the feeling he doesnt wanna get caught cause his facebook and his manhunt profiles are SO polar opposite but its def him behind both cause he posted NUDES. lol He is very very "down low" i can tell. LOL I would do it anyway even if he defriended me, its not like your going out with the guy. | |
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