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    Post by Chris Fri May 27, 2011 6:54 am

    Do you like the idea of the 'nuclear family,' with 2.5 kids, a dog, a home in the suburbs, with the breadwinner husband/father going to work and the homemaker wife/mother?
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    Post by Cheaps Fri May 27, 2011 8:23 am

    2 each his own, if thats ur ideal cool, but i didnt grow up that way..
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    Post by Shale Fri May 27, 2011 9:53 am

    No, not a traditionalist.

    And, I grew up that way. Beaver Cleaver and I hung out together in the 'burbs.
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    Post by Supernova Fri May 27, 2011 10:26 am

    Chris wrote:Do you like the idea of the 'nuclear family,' with 2.5 kids, a dog, a home in the suburbs, with the breadwinner husband/father going to work and the homemaker wife/mother?


    That's about how my brother and I grew up. laughing That said, no not necessarily.
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    Post by (Oh!) Rob Petrie Fri May 27, 2011 10:49 am

    Shale wrote:No, not a traditionalist.

    And, I grew up that way. Beaver Cleaver and I hung out together in the 'burbs.

    You and Beaver Cleaver hung out in the woods.
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    Post by Forgiveness Man Fri May 27, 2011 10:59 am

    I am NOT a traditionalist. I don't find these ideas tied to traditionalism at all. FORGIVENESS MAN I think a home in the burbs sounds nice. But I can do without the dog. And 2.5 kids is dayum small. (Nothing traditional about that either.) And yeah, I think at least one parent should be raising the kids rather than a daycare provider/bunch of know-it-all school officials. Razz I hardly think that makes me a traditionalist. I think it just makes me pragmatic in pursuing what I want.
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    Post by Tony Marino Fri May 27, 2011 11:02 am

    Nope and I hope to one day get the heck out of suburbia and find a home in the wild where I can run around naked anytime I want.
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    Post by Forgiveness Man Fri May 27, 2011 11:03 am

    Tony Marino wrote:Nope and I hope to one day get the heck out of suburbia and find a home in the wild where I can run around naked anytime I want.
    That makes you the biggest traditionalist of all Big Bro! Razz
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    Post by Shale Fri May 27, 2011 11:08 am

    Rockbird wrote:
    Shale wrote:No, not a traditionalist.

    And, I grew up that way. Beaver Cleaver and I hung out together in the 'burbs.

    You and Beaver Cleaver hung out in the woods.
    Uh, we don't talk about that. blank stare @ you

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    Post by Tony Marino Fri May 27, 2011 11:50 am

    Forgiveness Man wrote:
    Tony Marino wrote:Nope and I hope to one day get the heck out of suburbia and find a home in the wild where I can run around naked anytime I want.
    That makes you the biggest traditionalist of all Big Bro! Razz

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    Post by Friendly Veteran Fri May 27, 2011 12:01 pm

    I believe in the idea of a parent staying more at home to help raise the kids. That can be the father or the mother. Some couples like my bosses started their own company schedule things and arrange appointments to make sure the kids are not alone at home.

    In that sense I still believe the parent being the best option of raising a child than a day care or a neighborgh.

    The parents brought the kids to this world and I do not see why the have them if they plan for others to raise them. In my opinion many parents by actions their own goals and ambitions are higher priority than the kids with does not match when they claim it is the other way around.

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    Post by Nystyle709 Fri May 27, 2011 9:45 pm

    Nix the dog and the homemaker/mother. I will be working too. And I don't have to live in the 'burbs. So nah, I guess I'm not a typical traditionalist.
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    Post by MandyPerfumeGirl Sat May 28, 2011 12:27 pm

    Chris wrote:Do you like the idea of the 'nuclear family,' with 2.5 kids, a dog, a home in the suburbs, with the breadwinner husband/father going to work and the homemaker wife/mother?

    Different things work for different families, so I say if this equation works for some families, then go for it. But to answer the question, I would say no, that equation wouldn't work for me. I could do without the kids. I honestly don't think I'd mind being a homemaker, but that means I would have to ask my husband for money. That ain't going to work for me, Honey, so unfortunately, as much as I hate working, I'd have a job too. Plus, it's not really realistic in this day and age that one parent can stay home - most families need two incomes.

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