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Chris Chamber Admin.
Join date : 2010-01-30 Location : Oak Park, Michigan Posts : 23201 Rep : 330
| Subject: Should parents share the same bonding activities with their opposite sex child? Wed Jun 08, 2011 8:12 am | |
| Should mothers teach their sons how to cook and sew? Should fathers be as willing to play catch with their daughters? Traditionally minded parents, that is.
Same question applies towards chores. If you had a teenage son and a daughter who were about the same age, would you be as quick to have her cut the grass and him clean? | |
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Forgiveness Man …is a Chamber Royal.
Join date : 2010-06-25 Location : Chilling on your sofa Posts : 6657 Rep : 153
| Subject: Re: Should parents share the same bonding activities with their opposite sex child? Wed Jun 08, 2011 8:53 am | |
| If they wanted to, that's all well and good. No biggie. Lots of men cook as adults anyway. Cooking only seems feminine because women usually are the household cooks. Men are plenty good chefs, especially the Italians. | |
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RedBedroom …is a Chamber DEITY.
Join date : 2010-02-18 Posts : 10696 Rep : 312
| Subject: Re: Should parents share the same bonding activities with their opposite sex child? Wed Jun 08, 2011 10:05 am | |
| I think that parents do that normally. But then the kids get older, and girls stop wanting to toss a ball or go fishing and boys stop baking and shopping. | |
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Supernova The Book Chamber
Join date : 2010-06-22 Posts : 11954 Rep : 182
| Subject: Re: Should parents share the same bonding activities with their opposite sex child? Wed Jun 08, 2011 10:07 am | |
| I definitely think they should, especially with chores because it irritates the hell out of me when some people say boys don't have to do certain things BECAUSE they're boys. | |
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DanaShelbyChancey …is Significant.
Join date : 2011-03-01 Location : Collingswood New Jersey USA Posts : 366 Rep : 10
| Subject: Re: Should parents share the same bonding activities with their opposite sex child? Wed Jun 08, 2011 10:09 am | |
| They had better teach the boys to be able to open a can, and put something in a pot and heat it up!! Or else it will be a shock to their future partners.
Tossing a ball with dad, for a girl, is a fond memory. Better than cooking and sewing. | |
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Nystyle709 ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
Join date : 2010-03-16 Location : New York Posts : 27030 Rep : 339
| Subject: Re: Should parents share the same bonding activities with their opposite sex child? Wed Jun 08, 2011 7:18 pm | |
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Marc™ …is a Chamber DEITY.
Join date : 2010-01-30 Location : Michigan Posts : 12006 Rep : 212
| Subject: Re: Should parents share the same bonding activities with their opposite sex child? Wed Jun 08, 2011 8:11 pm | |
| - Chris wrote:
- Should mothers teach their sons how to cook and sew? Should fathers be as willing to play catch with their daughters?
Traditionally minded parents, that is.
Same question applies towards chores. If you had a teenage son and a daughter who were about the same age, would you be as quick to have her cut the grass and him clean? My son and daughter are the same age....and I can honestly say that I don't treat either one different because of gender. It depends more on their personalities. Far as chores go, my attitude is that I don't care who does it, so long as it gets done. | |
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TSJFan4Ever …is a Chamber Royal.
Join date : 2010-03-28 Posts : 5362 Rep : 78
| Subject: Re: Should parents share the same bonding activities with their opposite sex child? Wed Jun 08, 2011 11:29 pm | |
| Yes - most definitely. My Dad was my running coach all throughout high school from the time I started running until I graduated. | |
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