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    Would you drop a friend to appease another?

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    Post by Kral Mon Jun 13, 2011 5:05 pm

    Hypothetical situation: One of your friends doesn't like one of your other friends, because they got into a fight, and now friend #1, wont talk to you because you didn't drop friend #2 for them, how would you handle the situation?
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    Post by Tony Marino Mon Jun 13, 2011 5:21 pm

    Well.........too bad for friend number 1 its their problem not mine. If friend number 1 won't speak to me because I am friends with number 2 then we were not really friends to begin with.
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    Post by CeCe Mon Jun 13, 2011 5:28 pm

    Tony Marino wrote:Well.........too bad for friend number 1 its their problem not mine. If friend number 1 won't speak to me because I am friends with number 2 then we were not really friends to begin with.

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    Post by CatEyes10736 Mon Jun 13, 2011 6:47 pm

    Absolutely not. If friend #1 doesn't wanna hang out me and friend #2 they don't have to, but getting mad at me for not dropping them as a friend will only make me drop friend #1.
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    Post by Shale Mon Jun 13, 2011 7:23 pm

    CeCe wrote:
    Tony Marino wrote:Well.........too bad for friend number 1 its their problem not mine. If friend number 1 won't speak to me because I am friends with number 2 then we were not really friends to begin with.

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    CatEyes10736 wrote:Absolutely not. If friend #1 doesn't wanna hang out me and friend #2 they don't have to, but getting mad at me for not dropping them as a friend will only make me drop friend #1.
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    Post by Alan Smithee Mon Jun 13, 2011 7:37 pm

    That's basically how I lost contact with my mother. By re-establishing a relationship with my father. It's not as if she gave me an ultimatum to make a choice. Just the fact that I did. Oh well. Shrugs (Oh well…)
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    Post by (Oh!) Rob Petrie Tue Jun 14, 2011 12:28 am

    No. If a friend asked me to do that, I'd probably drop THAT friend rather than the requested one.
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    Post by Cheaps Tue Jun 14, 2011 4:15 am

    no, i wouldn't drop a friend to appease another
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    Post by Nystyle709 Tue Jun 14, 2011 11:27 am

    Nope.
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    Post by Tony Marino Tue Jun 14, 2011 12:00 pm

    alan smithee wrote:That's basically how I lost contact with my mother. By re-establishing a relationship with my father. It's not as if she gave me an ultimatum to make a choice. Just the fact that I did. Oh well. Shrugs (Oh well…)


    That is sad, I don't know the circumstances with your parents but a child has the right to know both of them.

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