Alan Smithee wrote: Supernova wrote:'Nothing tastes as good as being thin feels'. My mother used to tell me that when she was on my back to lose weight
Does she have anymore of these gems? Maybe we can look forward to a book?
Yeah I know. I also know that she means well and that like I said, she's the exact opposite so she doesn't get it. But that was some years back and she's since gotten off of that, because now she's also finding out what it's like to constantly be eating instead of eating like a bird.
When I was a teenager she tried everything she could think of to get me to lose weight, and I can understand her concern, my grandfather was fat and he got diabetes and that caused him a lot of health issues and he did not go gently into the good night when he finally died, and I can understand that she didn't want the same thing to happen to me but she never seemed to get that thin people could get it too, like Mary Tyler Moore. And she was always on my case about all the candy I ate, well we didn't find out until just recently that sugar does not increase your risk for diabetes, it's the obesity caused by mass consumption.
And she always knew everything about how the thin people eat 'people in Europe only eat 2 or 3 bites of everything because it doesn't taste as good after that', 'you put on more weight if you eat after dinner', 'cut your food up in little pieces so it lasts longer', and waking me up at 6 to exercise before breakfast, and all the time 'let's do this, let's do that, let's get you up and moving around'.
But apparently, even for her being between 92-95 pounds all her life, she has placed a lot of self worth on her ability to remain that size because when she got married to my father, he told her up front he would divorce her if she got fat. And her father was the same way, always talked to his wife like that, so grandma wore a corset when she was pregnant (which we're all certain is responsible for my mother's claustrophobia) because she didn't want to look fat, so I don't know, I guess when that's what you're surrounded by your whole life, you are going to be like that.
But, she's started gaining a little weight herself lately (though she's glad of it because she can never keep it on and was below her ideal weight for a long time) and now she's like me and always hungry and she's finally gotten off my case, it took her a few years but it's finally gotten to the point she's not 'how much does the food on your plate weigh?' and 'pour the candy out of the bag so you can actually see how much you're eating, it says 1/4 cup per serving'. I think she's finally accepted that this is me, and I am never going to look like her, not that she wanted me to anyway, she always commented me on having well developed legs instead of lanky toothpicks like other girls do.
And I have to go with W2L, I've tried to take the weight off, never succeeded much, and why kill yourself just to fit a smaller number? Hell, clothes aren't made to fit anyway, my mother got a pair of size 9 shorts in WOMEN, they just fit her, she wears between a 3 and 5, can we say mismarked as hell?
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