Delayed physical attraction.

Have you ever become physically attracted to someone (who you initially weren't attracted to) after talking to them, and realizing that they were cool people?

Most definitely. That is how it was for my guy and I. For a year, he (who was a patron at the bar I worked at in college) asked me out more than once, and I just really wanted to keep it strictly friends. But, one day, he did something that made me see that he was a decent guy and I should give him a chance.

Depends on how unattractive I thought they were to begin with. If I thought they were ugly beforehand, then talked to them and got to know them and saw that they were cool, then their unattractive physical features stop taking so much precedence in how I see them. But rarely have I been not attracted to someone and then turned on after talking to them.

if she decent to start with then talking might make me like her that much more, but if she was busted to begin with then us chattin won't fix her face.

JB wrote:Depends on how unattractive I thought they were to begin with. If I thought they were ugly beforehand, then talked to them and got to know them and saw that they were cool, then their unattractive physical features stop taking so much precedence in how I see them. But rarely have I been not attracted to someone and then turned on after talking to them.

Gonna have to agree. The only time something like that has ever happened was when I thought the other person was more "plain" or they didn't really hold my attention before. If "ugly" crossed my mind when I first laid eyes on them and if something hasn't happened to radically change their looks for the better I'm not likely to start finding them attractive after I discover how cool they are.