I seek the opinion of parents of older kids. I am really lost right now on the way to go. My son has a plan for his 13th birthday.
I am not looking for anyone to take my side unless they really do and I don't "do" Mom forums as most of them are cracked. That's why I am asking here.
My son wants a friend to come for the day (kids are off school all day) so they can hit the BMX park then said friend stays the night so friend can travel with son and his dad to motocross training track out of town the next day.
I take issue with the plan as I would like to spend the evening with my son on his b-day. Thirteen is a milestone. My son doesn't see it that way.
Personally, I am torn on meeting my own need to mark the day verses his want to hang with a buddy. I should add this buddy is a kid, competitor actually, he has raced against since they were five.
I wouldn't even engage the thought of this if the selected friend wasn't someone significant.
But 13 is so huge to me...I am going to be mom to a teen in a week. I need to mark that with something special...right?
I am not looking for anyone to take my side unless they really do and I don't "do" Mom forums as most of them are cracked. That's why I am asking here.
My son wants a friend to come for the day (kids are off school all day) so they can hit the BMX park then said friend stays the night so friend can travel with son and his dad to motocross training track out of town the next day.
I take issue with the plan as I would like to spend the evening with my son on his b-day. Thirteen is a milestone. My son doesn't see it that way.
Personally, I am torn on meeting my own need to mark the day verses his want to hang with a buddy. I should add this buddy is a kid, competitor actually, he has raced against since they were five.
I wouldn't even engage the thought of this if the selected friend wasn't someone significant.
But 13 is so huge to me...I am going to be mom to a teen in a week. I need to mark that with something special...right?
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