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Wait time for commitment

Kral

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Wait time for commitment

by Kral Sat Aug 13, 2011 11:21 pm

If you are dating someone who says they aren’t ready to commit, would you wait? How long?

Alan Smithee

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Re: Wait time for commitment

by Alan Smithee Sat Aug 13, 2011 11:33 pm

This presumes that you're looking for a long term commitment yourself? If the person said they weren't ready to commit I wouldn't wait around that long waiting for them to change their mind.

RedBedroom

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Re: Wait time for commitment

by RedBedroom Sun Aug 14, 2011 12:42 am

I think it depends on why they are not ready. If it is for them to be afforded time to play the field, my wait time would be drastically less.

Nystyle709

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Well, if I was the one seriously looking for a long term relationship, then my wait time would be pretty short. I will move on with my life. If it was just casual dating, then it will fizzle or blossom whenever.