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    How would you react to a loved one refusing medical treatment?

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    Post by Chris Wed Sep 07, 2011 6:49 am

    I have a co-worker with a heart murmur and needed corrective surgery. Doctors told him that if he didn't have it, his certain fate (death) was sealed. He is not a fan of hospitals and is leery of surgery, so he procrastinated. Everyone in his life attempted to coax him into going through with it sooner than later, but he wasn't budging. Finally his wife threatened to leave him if he didn't have the surgery immediately, so he did and it turned out well for him.

    If a loved one of yours were in the same situation, would you issue a similar threat if they procrastinated on treatment?
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    Post by Cheaps Wed Sep 07, 2011 7:28 am

    Yes, If their life was on the line.
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    Post by CeCe Wed Sep 07, 2011 9:21 am

    It just depends on the situation. In some cases people are just being stubborn over something silly. But if it's a terminal illness I have to respect the wishes of that person. I'd talk to them but ultimately it's their life & their choice.
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    Post by Hyacinth Girl Wed Sep 07, 2011 9:25 am

    Usually it's my husband being a baby about going to the doctor, which he hasn't done in years, yet whines when he gets the smallest sniffle. I usually just tell him not to worry--he can ignore all his own healthcare stuff if he wants, because I've gotten his life insurance policy paid up, so I'll be all set if he kicks off.
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    Post by Supernova Wed Sep 07, 2011 9:45 am

    Hyacinth Girl wrote:Usually it's my husband being a baby about going to the doctor, which he hasn't done in years, yet whines when he gets the smallest sniffle. I usually just tell him not to worry--he can ignore all his own healthcare stuff if he wants, because I've gotten his life insurance policy paid up, so I'll be all set if he kicks off.

    ROFLMAO! It definitely depends on the situation and I can understand people NOT wanting to go through with something; around here our doctors are not the most competent breed. My mother knew a man who had throat cancer and the doctor's idea for how to treat that was to wire his jaw shut and cut a hole into his neck, WHY he decided that, I don't think anybody ever found out.
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    Post by AtownPeep Wed Sep 07, 2011 9:47 am

    It's their life, but I wouldn't respect them being so reckless and depending on how much I cared about them would probably be upset by their choice.
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    Post by Shale Wed Sep 07, 2011 9:54 am

    The OP had two issues.

    One, a person should have the right to make his own medical decisions.
    Two, he is not single, he is sharing his life with another person who should also have a say in the progress of their relationship. Perhaps she would sincerely prefer to be a divorcee instead of a widow but the point got across to the guy - kill yourself alone.
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    Post by Alan Smithee Wed Sep 07, 2011 2:07 pm

    As others have said, it depends. I'm not going to divorce my wife because she won't quite smoking but you can bet your ass that if she doesn't stop if she's ever diagnosed with a smoking related illness, I'm dumping a bucket of water on her head every time I see her light up. She can leave me.
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    Post by wants2laugh Wed Sep 07, 2011 2:10 pm

    his life, his decision to handle it
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    Post by Nhaiyel Wed Sep 07, 2011 2:19 pm

    It would ultimately be their decision, but I would be about through with them if they decided to not go ahead with it. I don't know how much I could tolerate watching someone I cared about choose grim suffrage over possible wellness, simply because they have some hospital phobia.
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    Post by Supernova Wed Sep 07, 2011 2:34 pm

    Alan Smithee wrote:As others have said, it depends. I'm not going to divorce my wife because she won't quite smoking but you can bet your ass that if she doesn't stop if she's ever diagnosed with a smoking related illness, I'm dumping a bucket of water on her head every time I see her light up. She can leave me.

    LMAO! Sounds like a good idea to me, Alan!
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    Post by Tony Marino Wed Sep 07, 2011 4:43 pm

    I think I would yes.
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    Post by Shale Wed Sep 07, 2011 5:52 pm

    Alan Smithee wrote:...I'm not going to divorce my wife because she won't quite smoking ...
    That was one issue between me and my wife and the counselor thot it no big deal. It was to me.
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    Post by Nystyle709 Wed Sep 07, 2011 7:33 pm

    I wouldn't like it, and if I have to threaten them to get treatment that will save their life, then I'll do it.

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