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    Post by Chris Thu Oct 06, 2011 8:17 am

    Have you ever known any heterosexual men who were effeminate?
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    Post by Tony Marino Thu Oct 06, 2011 10:05 am

    Yes quite a few. Although I suspected a couple of them would have no problem dropping them and bending over big grin
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    Post by Nhaiyel Thu Oct 06, 2011 10:32 am

    I'm not sure. I know some men who are a bit on the daintier side of things, and while they don't "claim" to be gay…
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    Post by Cheaps Thu Oct 06, 2011 10:53 am

    My oldest sister used to have a friend with a girlfriend and kid, he was kinda dainty, and certain mannerism and his hair used to bring questions about his sexuality.
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    Post by Nystyle709 Thu Oct 06, 2011 10:57 am

    Effeminate straight men is an oxymoron. There is a difference between effeminate and being a metrosexual.
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    Post by Shale Thu Oct 06, 2011 10:58 am

    Tony Marino wrote:Yes quite a few. Although I suspected a couple of them would have no problem dropping them and bending over big grin

    Always suspicious of "str8" men like that. Gay men who aren't effeminate are accused of "acting str8" so are effeminate str8 men "acting gay?" blank stare @ you
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    Post by tmontyb Thu Oct 06, 2011 11:13 am

    Opa Shale wrote:

    Always suspicious of "str8" men like that. Gay men who aren't effeminate are accused of "acting str8" so are effeminate str8 men "acting gay?" blank stare @ you

    As a gay man, I truly hate that "straight acting" mantra. What exactly is straight acting? I'm mean, are they acting?

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    Post by Nystyle709 Thu Oct 06, 2011 11:19 am

    tmontyb wrote:

    As a gay man, I truly hate that "straight acting" mantra. What exactly is straight acting? I'm mean, are they acting?



    I don't think you can "act' straight either. I know gay men who act like men. Just because you're gay doesn't mean you're not a man. Which is why I don't understand why some gay males go out of their way to pop their fingers and roll their necks. Women don't even act like that.
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    Post by tmontyb Thu Oct 06, 2011 11:26 am

    Nystyle709 wrote:


    I don't think you can "act' straight either. I know gay men who act like men. Just because you're gay doesn't mean you're not a man. Which is why I don't understand why some gay males go out of their way to pop their fingers and roll their necks. Women don't even act like that.

    I agree, some gay guys tend to over emphasize, but for a lot, I think it's natural.
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    Post by Shale Thu Oct 06, 2011 11:31 am

    tmontyb wrote: As a gay man, I truly hate that "straight acting" mantra. What exactly is straight acting? I'm mean, are they acting?

    Yeah, there are a lot of sub issues in the gay 'community' and I think 'str8 acting' was coined by gay men. Body language is probably learned from your family and community - why I can see a Haitian walking down the street and identify them by the way they walk and carry themselves. Gay men raised by rednecks are likely gonna speak and have body language just like their daddy, unless they consciously alter it when they get to the city.

    Oh, and nobody ever considers bisexuals when assessing gay & str8. Where do we fit in? Other than skewing those genetic arguments, unless they can find a bi gene when and if they ever find a gay gene.

    And no. I am not a str8 acting guy trying to hide the fact that I love sucking cock - I am quite out - just don't have nelly mannerisms.
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    Post by tmontyb Thu Oct 06, 2011 11:43 am

    Opa Shale wrote:

    And no. I am not a str8 acting guy trying to hide the fact that I love sucking cock - I am quite out - just don't have nelly mannerisms. [/size][/color]

    I definitely know where you are coming from.
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    Post by Alan Smithee Thu Oct 06, 2011 1:55 pm

    Chris wrote:Have you ever known any heterosexual men who were effeminate?

    I've known effeminate men but never knew their sexual orientation for certain. And didn't care.

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