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    Keeping secrets

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    Post by Chris Tue Oct 11, 2011 7:24 am

    Can you be trusted with a secret?

    Have you ever betrayed someone by revealing something they told you in confidence to someone else?

    Has someone ever betrayed you by divulging something you told them in confidence to other people?

    If someone is told something in confidence, would they be justified or excused in telling someone close to them (i.e., their lover/spouse who 'they don't keep secrets from'?)
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    Post by Cheaps Tue Oct 11, 2011 9:02 am

    Chris wrote:Can you be trusted with a secret?

    Yes

    Have you ever betrayed someone by revealing something they told you in confidence to someone else?

    No

    Has someone ever betrayed you by divulging something you told them in confidence to other people?

    Once

    If someone is told something in confidence, would they be justified or excused in telling someone close to them (i.e., their lover/spouse who 'they don't keep secrets from'?)

    I've been in this situation before too, eh I don't like it, but I can/have excuse(d) it
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    Post by Shale Tue Oct 11, 2011 9:20 am

    Can you be trusted with a secret?

    I had a Top Secret clearance with the National Security Agency - guess so.

    Have you ever betrayed someone by revealing something they told you in confidence to someone else?

    No!

    Has someone ever betrayed you by divulging something you told them in confidence to other people?

    Can't recall. I choose whom I divulge stuff to.

    If someone is told something in confidence, would they be justified or excused in telling someone close to them (i.e., their lover/spouse who 'they don't keep secrets from'?)

    IDK, but I know things about a buddy's wife that she would kill both of us if she ever thot we discussed that.
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    Post by Supernova Tue Oct 11, 2011 10:10 am

    Chris wrote:Can you be trusted with a secret?

    Have you ever betrayed someone by revealing something they told you in confidence to someone else?

    Has someone ever betrayed you by divulging something you told them in confidence to other people?

    If someone is told something in confidence, would they be justified or excused in telling someone close to them (i.e., their lover/spouse who 'they don't keep secrets from'?)

    To quote Stuart from MadTV: "*gasp* I LOVE secrets, my family has LOTS of them" LOL

    I usually do well to stay tight lipped, and I guess others are likewise about me.

    My family goes through a lot of this, everybody CAN keep their mouths shut so yeah the 'don't say I told you this' goes around but never returns to sender.
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    Post by Nystyle709 Tue Oct 11, 2011 11:57 am

    Yes, no, no, and no.
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    Post by Tony Marino Tue Oct 11, 2011 12:25 pm

    Chris wrote:Can you be trusted with a secret?

    YES

    Have you ever betrayed someone by revealing something they told you in confidence to someone else?

    NO

    Has someone ever betrayed you by divulging something you told them in confidence to other people?

    YES

    If someone is told something in confidence, would they be justified or excused in telling someone close to them (i.e., their lover/spouse who 'they don't keep secrets from'?)

    NO

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    Post by Alan Smithee Tue Oct 11, 2011 1:42 pm

    Can you be trusted with a secret?

    Have you ever betrayed someone by revealing something they told you in confidence to someone else?

    Has someone ever betrayed you by divulging something you told them in confidence to other people?

    If someone is told something in confidence, would they be justified or excused in telling someone close to them (i.e., their lover/spouse who 'they don't keep secrets from'?)

    Yes.
    No.
    Not that I can think of.
    Not just because they "don't keep secrets" from each other. Even if that were true. Which I very much doubt. It depends on the potential for harm to the person the secret is being kept from. LOL, so maybe the answer to #1 is really no.
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