Ladies have you ever dated a guy you suspected was.................not totally heterosexual?
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To the females here...have you ever dated a man who...
femme fatale- …is a Power Member.
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Hmmmmm. . . . .
Not that I know of.
Not that I know of.
Judy P.- …is a Newbie.
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No
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Nope. But I have turned down guys who I suspected weren't.
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YES!
Eric was my last boyfriend, 14 years ago, before I started dating my son's dad. We only dated a short time, but I did like him quite a bit, but it did not take me long to realize he was either gay or bisexual. I met him at the bar I worked at in college. I was a bit indifferent to him at first but a coworker told me one night how much Eric was into me and how highly he spoke of me. I fed into that and we had a month or so of fun dating, but it ended poorly with me really being a bitch.
I won't go into detail other than the fact we were way too honest with each other and I did not take criticism well. So when he got on me about something on our last day spending time together, I made a shot at his sexuality. I should not have done that. I was just being a defensive little bitch.
Months later, he was dating a man. I don't know if he was gay or bisexual. I feel very bad for what I said to him as I shouldn't have said what I did. But we actually did remain friends for the amount of time I worked at that bar.
Eric was my last boyfriend, 14 years ago, before I started dating my son's dad. We only dated a short time, but I did like him quite a bit, but it did not take me long to realize he was either gay or bisexual. I met him at the bar I worked at in college. I was a bit indifferent to him at first but a coworker told me one night how much Eric was into me and how highly he spoke of me. I fed into that and we had a month or so of fun dating, but it ended poorly with me really being a bitch.
I won't go into detail other than the fact we were way too honest with each other and I did not take criticism well. So when he got on me about something on our last day spending time together, I made a shot at his sexuality. I should not have done that. I was just being a defensive little bitch.
Months later, he was dating a man. I don't know if he was gay or bisexual. I feel very bad for what I said to him as I shouldn't have said what I did. But we actually did remain friends for the amount of time I worked at that bar.
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No. And if I do, it's a wrap.
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My wife dated me (If going to Waffle House with a bunch of co-workers is a date). When we started getting serious about seeing each other I told her I was bi. She had no problem with it.
In fact, sometimes I think bi guys are more at ease as lovers - no anxieties about presenting a macho image or performing str8 in bed. I can comfortably hug male friends (some gay) and my wife appreciated that open sensitivity. (Yeah, we did long walks on the beach too).
In fact, sometimes I think bi guys are more at ease as lovers - no anxieties about presenting a macho image or performing str8 in bed. I can comfortably hug male friends (some gay) and my wife appreciated that open sensitivity. (Yeah, we did long walks on the beach too).
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Nope
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Yeah, in high school. I should have known. Dude had three tongue rings in three different colors
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May I ask why? Just curious.AtownPeep wrote:Nope. But I have turned down guys who I suspected weren't.
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I have dated guys who were bi, not a big deal to me. But if they seem to be in the closet or don't want to be honest about their sexuality with me, i don't care for that.
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I can understand that. That makes more sense to me.TPP wrote:I have dated guys who were bi, not a big deal to me. But if they seem to be in the closet or don't want to be honest about their sexuality with me, i don't care for that.
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FireIce918 wrote:Yeah, in high school. I should have known. Dude had three tongue rings in three different colors
Now, I have dated a guy with a tongue ring, but he was 100% straight. Yeah, three in three different colors would raise my eyebrows too.
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Nystyle709 wrote:
Now, I have dated a guy with a tongue ring, but he was 100% straight. Yeah, three in three different colors would raise my eyebrows too.
I left out how he wanted to join the circus too! LMAO, he HAD to get the boot
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captainbryce wrote:May I ask why? Just curious.
Just too convoluted for my tastes to be a female involved with a male who isn't totally into females. I don't want that kind of drama or open ended questions.
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