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If you are (or were) married, would you be okay with your spouse having a best (not casual) friend who was of the opposite gender? With them paling around and spending a significant amount of time with said friend; even when you weren't around?
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Is it okay to have opposite sex friends when married?
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Re: Is it okay to have opposite sex friends when married?
by tmontyb Sun Nov 27, 2011 10:40 am
I think it's okay. I guess it's all a matter of trust.
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Re: Is it okay to have opposite sex friends when married?
by Supernova Sun Nov 27, 2011 11:01 am
If it was alright before marriage, why shouldn't it be after?
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Re: Is it okay to have opposite sex friends when married?
by Nystyle709 Sun Nov 27, 2011 11:40 am
Yes. I have male friends who are married. Contrary to popular belief, men and women CAN just be platonic friends.
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by Supernova Sun Nov 27, 2011 11:50 am
Nystyle709 wrote:Yes. I have male friends who are married. Contrary to popular belief, men and women CAN just be platonic friends.
Exactly WHY people think this is as likely as jumping the Grand Canyon on a tricycle is beyond me.
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by Shale Sun Nov 27, 2011 11:56 am
Of course, as long as her male friends don't have a key to her chastity belt.
Of course it is alright. I don't follow those archaic possesion beliefs.
Of course it is alright. I don't follow those archaic possesion beliefs.
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Re: Is it okay to have opposite sex friends when married?
by Cheaps Sun Nov 27, 2011 12:01 pm
They betta be gay.
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Re: Is it okay to have opposite sex friends when married?
by Jason B. Sun Nov 27, 2011 12:32 pm
cheaps wrote:They betta be gay.
I was thinking the same thing. The gayer the better if THAT situation!
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Opa Shale wrote:Of course, as long as her male friends don't have a key to her chastity belt.
Of course it is alright. I don't follow those archaic possesion beliefs.
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by Bluesmama Sun Nov 27, 2011 3:14 pm
Friends, you betcha'. Pal around? Nope.
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Re: Is it okay to have opposite sex friends when married?
by RobbieFTW Sun Nov 27, 2011 10:02 pm
I dont see any harm in it but any of my female BFF's husbands wouldnt have to worry about me getting funny ideas. It really is only a shopping date!
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Re: Is it okay to have opposite sex friends when married?
by Marc™ Mon Nov 28, 2011 12:01 pm
Eh.....
I wouldn't like it but I wouldn't try and forbid it either (unless they were a little too friendly with each other.)
I wouldn't like it but I wouldn't try and forbid it either (unless they were a little too friendly with each other.)
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Re: Is it okay to have opposite sex friends when married?
by Tony Marino Mon Nov 28, 2011 1:23 pm
I think its o.k.
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