HomeLet's say you knew nothing about the affair until you find them in bed together. You find out later this has been going on for months. You had been going out with your SO for 2 years and were planning to get engaged. You have known your best friend for 15 years. Assume you have an SO and a best friend (if you don't.) Would you be able to forgive them or would you cut ties with one or both?
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If You Find your SO and your BFF In Bed together. Who Do You Forgive?
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by femme fatale Wed Dec 21, 2011 4:23 am
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by Supernova Wed Dec 21, 2011 4:25 am
Neither, both of them knew damn better than that.
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by Shale Wed Dec 21, 2011 10:29 am
IDK - so many variables here.
Is the BFF bi. Could we do a 3-way? Maybe form a poly relationship, or just a fling for a boring day.
(Or just dump them both for violating my trust)
Is the BFF bi. Could we do a 3-way? Maybe form a poly relationship, or just a fling for a boring day.
(Or just dump them both for violating my trust)
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by Nystyle709 Wed Dec 21, 2011 10:30 am
Cut ties with both.
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by Chris Wed Dec 21, 2011 11:57 am
Nystyle709 wrote:Cut ties with both.
Agreed.
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by RedBedroom Wed Dec 21, 2011 12:03 pm
I would be finished with the both of them
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by Bluesmama Wed Dec 21, 2011 1:27 pm
Neither. I'd never be able to trust either one of them again. There is a big world out there of boyfriends and girlfriends to find in their places.
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by wants2laugh Wed Dec 21, 2011 5:12 pm
agreed... they are both trash. I would be much less hurt if it were a one time thing, but to look me in the face for months and flat out lie??? ugh!
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by Suzi Wed Dec 21, 2011 7:00 pm
I always said I would scratch her eyes out and kill him.
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by CatEyes10736 Wed Dec 21, 2011 8:47 pm
I would cut ties with both of them.
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