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    Just Married (After 64 Years) Gay Couple

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    Post by Tony Marino Wed Dec 21, 2011 12:40 pm

    Just Married! (After 64 Years)

    Louis Halsey John Spofford Morgan married, new yorker gay couple married after 64 years, gay wedding after 64 years together

    John and Lou in Beirut, 1952, and in 2006.

    We are L-O-V-I-N-G New York Magazine’s story today about two gay veterans that finally were able to marry after 64 years together!


    When the Columbia Library closed each night at ten, it was the custom of John Spofford Morgan, who was studying for a master’s in international affairs, to hop on the subway and head downtown to the New Verdi on West 72nd. Back then, there were two kinds of bars for gay men, he says: pickup joints and old-friends joints. The New Verdi was the latter, but it turned into the former when at around 10:30 on May 17, 1947, Louis Halsey walked in. “Love at first sight,” says Lou now. “Was it?” John wonders. “For me it was slower.” In any case, Lou and John spent the night together, just as they have spent most nights in the 64 years ensuing. Last month, they got married.

    John is 94, recovering from a broken hip but otherwise as hale and handsome as Lou, 88, says he always was. One snapshot shows the pair on a beach in Beirut in 1952. Lou looks like Tony Curtis, glossy and pompadoured. John looks like JFK except, as his mother used to complain when people compared their families, “we have chins.”

    Both served in the Navy in World War II, but on different oceans, as in a way they were from different worlds on land. John, who still speaks in the accent of the turn-of-the-twentieth-­century elite, worked as an economist. Lou, of Hungarian-immigrant stock, cut hair for decades at the Westbury Hotel. He wears rings and bright colors; John emphatically doesn’t.

    But being gay was a great equalizer then. And being married is a great equalizer now. “People say, ‘So if you’re married, where’s the certificate?’ ” Lou explains. “Now we have it.” The pair ignored domestic partnership when it came along (“A halfway step,” says John), and since they had already invested in the complicated legal work-arounds—trusts, powers of attorney—needed to protect one another, they didn’t see the point of claiming marriage rights in, say, Iowa. But when the law passed here in June, they knew they would take the step. “Just to see it in black and white,” says Lou. For John, “it was more like finishing something.”

    The small ceremony, with a minister and three witnesses, was held in their Village apartment on November 11, a date they chose because they have for years noticed the time 11:11 on the clock by the bed. They did not exchange rings and got no gifts, “except bourbon!” Lou says. “But he”—he waves at John—“started to cry.”

    “Did I?” John wonders.

    Congratulations to the happy, handsome couple. I can only hope that my partner and I look this good (and have this much hair left on our heads) when were are in our 90′s. If anyone is wondering, Nick will be the one crying on our wedding day. Stiff upper lip on this one.

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    Post by Nystyle709 Wed Dec 21, 2011 12:45 pm

    They look good. Congrats to them.
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    Post by Shale Wed Dec 21, 2011 12:45 pm

    Obviously a major threat to the sanctity of marriage.

    How dare they continue a committed relationship longer than most het couples' lifetime. (who 50% of divorce)
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    Post by Chris Wed Dec 21, 2011 12:47 pm

    Someone would be hard-pressed to deny this couples legitimacy.
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    Post by Bluesmama Wed Dec 21, 2011 12:54 pm

    Congratulations to them.

    The one on the right looks better than a lot of 60 year olds! Wow!
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    Post by Cheaps Wed Dec 21, 2011 1:24 pm

    Congrats to them!

    In the younger picture, the guy on the right wasn't bad looking at all.
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    Post by CeCe Wed Dec 21, 2011 8:30 pm

    Awwww that is so sweet! I'm so glad they were finally able to get married. That's just wonderful!

    And I'm with cheaps. He was good looking AND hella HOTTTT!!!! salivate
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    Post by CatEyes10736 Wed Dec 21, 2011 8:43 pm

    So sweet. Smile I'm happy for them and glad they lived to see the day that their union could become legally recognized.
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    Post by captainbryce Wed Dec 21, 2011 8:56 pm

    Chris wrote:Someone would be hard-pressed to deny this couples legitimacy.
    Any takers?

    Forgivenessman?

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    Post by RedBedroom Wed Dec 21, 2011 9:18 pm

    Oh, that is an amazing story! Bless them both!

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