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If you knew someone who could be described as 'promiscuous,' having had dozens (or hundreds) of sexual partners, would you consider them lacking in character/decency?
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Do you question the overall decency of promiscuous people?
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Do you question the overall decency of promiscuous people?
by Chris Mon Jan 23, 2012 4:55 pm
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by Shale Mon Jan 23, 2012 5:29 pm
Chris wrote:If you knew someone who could be described as 'promiscuous,' having had dozens (or hundreds) of sexual partners, would you consider them lacking in character/decency?
Uh, NO!
Now let's see who insults me by saying yes.
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by Tony Marino Mon Jan 23, 2012 6:01 pm
Not really, what they do in their bedroom is their business, dosen't reflect on what type of person they are outside of that.
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by CeCe Mon Jan 23, 2012 6:04 pm
Of course not.
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by wants2laugh Mon Jan 23, 2012 7:34 pm
as long as they aren't cheating on anyone... there is no harm.
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by zthatzmanz28 Mon Jan 23, 2012 8:24 pm
ok..I will play along---- YES ----- 
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Re: Do you question the overall decency of promiscuous people?
by Bluesmama Mon Jan 23, 2012 8:43 pm
Well, I'll volunteer for the hot seat this time. It's only a forum.
I've known a lot of very promiscuous people, and almost all of them did harm to others or themselves. And, yes, overall decency can be compromised because of it.
But I did say "almost". . . Not ALL of them.
Good example is this woman who was married to my husband's nephew. Bitter divorce ensued, and she has screwed her father-in-law and her husband's brother. She has made an attempt to screw as many males in the family that she could (we cannot figure this out, either), although she's been shacked up with, and had a baby with, a cousin. One of her teen daughters is pregnant and she threw her out, outraged. Pot calling the kettle black?
This is a very self-absorbed person with a sex addiction who seems hell-bent on stirring things up. So, hell yes, I question her decency! She hasn't any.
I've known a lot of very promiscuous people, and almost all of them did harm to others or themselves. And, yes, overall decency can be compromised because of it.
But I did say "almost". . . Not ALL of them.
Good example is this woman who was married to my husband's nephew. Bitter divorce ensued, and she has screwed her father-in-law and her husband's brother. She has made an attempt to screw as many males in the family that she could (we cannot figure this out, either), although she's been shacked up with, and had a baby with, a cousin. One of her teen daughters is pregnant and she threw her out, outraged. Pot calling the kettle black?
This is a very self-absorbed person with a sex addiction who seems hell-bent on stirring things up. So, hell yes, I question her decency! She hasn't any.
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by Alan Smithee Mon Jan 23, 2012 9:30 pm
I wouldn't think they were indecent automatically. Depends on how they acted in general.
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by Nystyle709 Mon Jan 23, 2012 9:36 pm
Alan Smithee wrote:I wouldn't think they were indecent automatically. Depends on how they acted in general.
This. My cousin is a hoe. She good people, but she's still a hoe.
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by Suzi Mon Jan 23, 2012 9:37 pm
I would think they didn't value themselves very highly if they had hundreds of sexual partners. It would depend on how many dozens they had.
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by RobbieFTW Tue Jan 24, 2012 12:30 am
The way I see it I cant judge 'em if they keep their business discreet. If someone has a REPUTATION for being a slut then I cant say they will be as easy to respect.
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by Shale Tue Jan 24, 2012 1:01 am
How about Five Dozen in half a century?Suzi wrote:...It would depend on how many dozens they had.
(Actually that is 5-doz in 30 years because for 20 years I was only doing one person)
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by Suzi Tue Jan 24, 2012 3:06 am
I personally find 5 dozen pretty overwhelming, however you have to look at it from my experience....one man, no cheating no nonsense. I married him I stay married to him and count myself very lucky. However most men would probably envy you. Many men seem to figure their self worth by the number of conquests.
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by Cheaps Tue Jan 24, 2012 4:41 am
Bluesmama wrote:
Good example is this woman who was married to my husband's nephew. Bitter divorce ensued, and she has screwed her father-in-law and her husband's brother. She has made an attempt to screw as many males in the family that she could (we cannot figure this out, either), although she's been shacked up with, and had a baby with, a cousin. One of her teen daughters is pregnant and she threw her out, outraged. Pot calling the kettle black?
This is a very self-absorbed person with a sex addiction who seems hell-bent on stirring things up. So, hell yes, I question her decency! She hasn't any.
Wow. 
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by Forgiveness Man Sun Jan 29, 2012 7:26 pm
I'd have no questions in my mind as to their lack of decency.
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Re: Do you question the overall decency of promiscuous people?
by wants2laugh Sun Jan 29, 2012 7:34 pm
sexuality is a physical need... if someone is single, why would they be considered "indecent" in other ways just because they met that need?
relationships are hard, and it is hard to find the "right" person. Half of marriages fail, 75% of second marriages fail... so if a person decides not to marry, but still meet their needs... they are not decent people? even if they are good to others and are law abiding citizens? productive members of society?
relationships are hard, and it is hard to find the "right" person. Half of marriages fail, 75% of second marriages fail... so if a person decides not to marry, but still meet their needs... they are not decent people? even if they are good to others and are law abiding citizens? productive members of society?
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Re: Do you question the overall decency of promiscuous people?
by Shale Sun Jan 29, 2012 8:00 pm
I don't see my love connections as conquests. In fact I was seduced by many of those 61 different ppl.Suzi wrote:...However most men would probably envy you. Many men seem to figure their self worth by the number of conquests.
And, no matter how personally shallow those physical love moments were, I felt some kind of affection for the person I held in my arms for that moment - even the prostitutes that I was hiring. We did engage in sex just for the sex, but you cannot escape that there is another person there with you with his or her needs.
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