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    Would you get into a serious relationship with someone who has a sibling convicted of murder?

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    Post by RedBedroom Sun Mar 11, 2012 2:44 am

    I am curious what people think about this. Granted a sibling is not necessarily a direct reflection, but wouldn't you wonder "What if?"

    Honestly I would not pursue it once I found out. I guess it has to do with the fact I had to deal with an abusive guy and I am so afraid of that ever happening again.
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    Post by Shale Sun Mar 11, 2012 11:08 am

    One of my wife's brothers was in jail when we got together and it may have been for murder, IDK. It was mutually violent with him and another guy. It never concerned me.
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    Post by Supernova Sun Mar 11, 2012 11:09 am

    Hell no.
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    Post by Nystyle709 Sun Mar 11, 2012 11:21 am

    Uh, yeah. Those are two separate individuals. I don't believe in guilt by association in this case.
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    Post by Alan Smithee Sun Mar 11, 2012 11:31 am

    Not in and of itself but it could have an affect. I'm not making the trip on visiting days. If we got married and had kids I don't know if I'd want them to be around the paroled aunt or uncle. Depending on the circumstances of their crime.
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    Post by CeCe Sun Mar 11, 2012 1:19 pm

    I think people are responsible for their own actions. I can't hold what a relative does against someone. I would hope if I had a relative who had committed a crime, it wouldn't be held against me. Depending on the circumstances I might not want to hang out with them if & when they got out of prison but that wouldn't have anything to do with the guy I'm involved with.
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    Post by Marc™ Sun Mar 11, 2012 1:23 pm

    Yeah I would. One sibs fucked up life choices don't affect the others.
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    Post by FireIce918 Mon Mar 12, 2012 12:12 am

    Yeah but I'll be damned if that fool would know where I stay.

    He ain't invited to the wedding, either. Crazy ass.
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