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    In order to say you've dated someone, how many dates would you have had to be on?

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    Post by RedBedroom Tue Apr 17, 2012 11:12 pm

    My subject line may be a bit confusing. What I am trying to ask is how many dates make the difference in "I dated him/her" and "He/She and I went on a few dates."

    To me, four or five would count as "I dated him." But I guess I go with so few as I knew most of the people I dated before we became romantic.
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    Post by Nystyle709 Tue Apr 17, 2012 11:14 pm

    Hmmm....good question. I would say about a month of having a casual relationship would qualify as "dated" him/her.
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    Post by Shale Wed Apr 18, 2012 12:08 am

    How about "I met her at a bar, she took me to her place and I spent the night, leaving the next morning with no intention of seeing her again." Would that be considered a date?
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    Post by RedBedroom Wed Apr 18, 2012 12:24 am

    Shale wrote:How about "I met her at a bar, she took me to her place and I spent the night, leaving the next morning with no intention of seeing her again." Would that be considered a date?

    Nah...!!
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    Post by Shale Wed Apr 18, 2012 12:37 am

    RedBedroom wrote:
    Nah...!!
    Then, like I've said before, I don't think I've ever dated. blank stare @ you
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    Post by RedBedroom Wed Apr 18, 2012 1:00 am

    Shale, you wouldn't know what to do if a young boy ever asked you out on a proper date! Just wait, one day it will happen and you won't know what to do!
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    Post by Cheaps Wed Apr 18, 2012 4:01 am

    Nystyle709 wrote:Hmmm....good question. I would say about a month of having a casual relationship would qualify as "dated" him/her.

    Sounds good to me. co-signs
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    Post by Alan Smithee Wed Apr 18, 2012 7:57 am

    3?
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    Post by Tony Marino Thu Apr 19, 2012 10:55 am

    1 date is good enough for me to say I dated them.
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    Post by Marc™ Thu Apr 19, 2012 7:06 pm

    Hmmm....I would say at least 3 dates.
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    Post by Chris Fri Apr 20, 2012 4:15 am

    That is a good question. I agree with Marc, at least three dates.
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    Post by Shale Sat Apr 21, 2012 5:43 pm

    OK, I claimed to have never dated, but technically I think going on a 'date' means two ppl getting together to share their company on a set 'date.'

    So, I met this guy online and he suggested we meet IRL when he was in town. He came by my apartment and picked me up, drove me to Olive Garden and we had dinner together, which he paid for. He drove me back to my apartment and I invited him in for a nightcap.

    Does that sound like a date? If so, I guess I have taken two other similar dates in the past with online friends that I met IRL and took to dinner and ended up in a hotel room with them. Blue Cool

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