Would you date someone who is not only without a job, but doesn't seem to want one and wasn't looking?

Not unless the reason they didn't have a job was because they were financially independent.

No. That's a personality red flag.

LOL.

i wouldnt have a problem dating someone who just lost a job BUT WAS looking. however, many men base their masculinity on work, how much they make, and whether they can contribute financially to a relationship. I would be more bothered by an insecure man with issues, than a jobless man who is committed to finding a job.

BUT HELL NO-- is he gonna sit on my couch all day and do nothing!!! Unless he his cooking and cleaning... and servicing me! lol

No, not at all. If he wasn't looking for a job, I would not be interested.

I briefly dated a guy on workman's comp for a pretty serious back injury. He was depressed over it all and really not emotionally equipped to start a relationship.

Fuck no. Lazy ass. Money don't grown on trees and it certainly ain't growing out my azz to his hand so he needs to get to generating his own legal tender.

Nope

now that i think about it... i might just tie him down or put him in a cage in the dungeon.. whip and beat him a few times...

then he would go running to get the job... cause Mistress Kearsey doesnt take any shit!! lol

Chris wrote:

No. That's a personality red flag.

It most certainly is! My first husband had difficulty keeping jobs because of his personality "quirks" and he was not a responsible person. I learned from that mistake.