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 Question for Women....Would You Reconcile with a Man Who Hit You?

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PostSubject: Question for Women....Would You Reconcile with a Man Who Hit You?   Question for Women....Would You Reconcile with a Man Who Hit You? EmptyWed Jun 13, 2012 1:49 am
If you dating a man who laid hands on you, would you accept his sincere-seeming apology and be willing to give him another chance?
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PostSubject: Re: Question for Women....Would You Reconcile with a Man Who Hit You?   Question for Women....Would You Reconcile with a Man Who Hit You? EmptyWed Jun 13, 2012 1:53 am
No way would I anymore. It worked for the man who hit me. He threatened me and it worked. For too long. I wouldn't care what he threatened me with anymore if it happened with another man.
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PostSubject: Re: Question for Women....Would You Reconcile with a Man Who Hit You?   Question for Women....Would You Reconcile with a Man Who Hit You? EmptyWed Jun 13, 2012 2:16 am
If I hit him back first I might.
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PostSubject: Re: Question for Women....Would You Reconcile with a Man Who Hit You?   Question for Women....Would You Reconcile with a Man Who Hit You? EmptyWed Jun 13, 2012 2:28 am
Nope. I wouldn't.
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PostSubject: Re: Question for Women....Would You Reconcile with a Man Who Hit You?   Question for Women....Would You Reconcile with a Man Who Hit You? EmptyWed Jun 13, 2012 10:04 am
Depends on the situation. I'm inclined to say no, but everyone is liable to snap at some point. I won't be a glutton for abuse though. If I do give you another chance, after the first time....then it becomes a pattern. Then its over.
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PostSubject: Re: Question for Women....Would You Reconcile with a Man Who Hit You?   Question for Women....Would You Reconcile with a Man Who Hit You? EmptyWed Jun 13, 2012 10:13 am
Never. The ability to do that once, means the ability to do it again. I spent my early childhood, living in fear of my mother's first husband (not my biological father--that's a whole other story), who was physically and mentally abusive. I can still hear the sound of his fists hitting my mother during a fight they were having while I was upstairs hiding under my bed with the dog.

I've always vowed to never let a man treat me like that, and if I were ever in that position, all it would take is one hit and I'd be gone immediately on the spot, no questions asked, no forgiveness, no additional "chances."
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PostSubject: Re: Question for Women....Would You Reconcile with a Man Who Hit You?   Question for Women....Would You Reconcile with a Man Who Hit You? EmptyWed Jun 13, 2012 10:26 am
This question shouldn't be just for women. Even tho most abusive partners are male there are men who live with men.

Jim, my crazy partner for 5 years was prone to outbursts and once he pushed me. No hit, but I told him even that was not acceptable and he would NEVER do it again. He didn't.

Of course a heavy diner cup exploded on the wall once and a few other inanimate things got hit, but not me. Blue Cool
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PostSubject: Re: Question for Women....Would You Reconcile with a Man Who Hit You?   Question for Women....Would You Reconcile with a Man Who Hit You? EmptyFri Jun 15, 2012 2:12 am
nope... never had a man hit me. I THOUGHT my ex husband was about to hit me in an argument and i told him "do it and i swear i'll drop kick you thru the glass door behind you"... this really threw him off cause he had no intention of hitting me. chis and i talked about it when our mutual friend was put in the hospital by her husband. I told him "i know you can snap my neck and kill me, so if you ever hit me, you better kill me. If not, i will get you--- whether ur in the shower, sleeping, or taking a shit... I'll get you with your own weapon" I meant it too
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No. That's one area I don't believe in second chances in this kind of situation.
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