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    Should an affair sway the favor in divorce proceedings?

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    Question Should an affair sway the favor in divorce proceedings?

    Post by Chris Fri Oct 19, 2012 10:48 am

    If a couple is divorcing and it is brought up that one spouse had an affair during the marriage, should that fact work against them during proceedings? IOW, they cheated so they get less of the community property, or have to pay more in spousal support.
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    Question Re: Should an affair sway the favor in divorce proceedings?

    Post by CeCe Fri Oct 19, 2012 10:55 am

    I don't think there should be an "affair fee". I think it's better to separate first but shit happens & sometimes the affair isn't wrong. It really depends on the situation. It should be grounds for the divorce if one is contesting. But I don't know that it should land somebody in the penalty box.
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    Question Re: Should an affair sway the favor in divorce proceedings?

    Post by Tony Marino Fri Oct 19, 2012 11:43 am

    CeCe wrote:I don't think there should be an "affair fee". I think it's better to separate first but shit happens & sometimes the affair isn't wrong. It really depends on the situation. It should be grounds for the divorce if one is contesting. But I don't know that it should land somebody in the penalty box.

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    Question Re: Should an affair sway the favor in divorce proceedings?

    Post by Nystyle709 Fri Oct 19, 2012 11:44 am

    It depends. Shouldn't be the back breaker though.
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    Question Re: Should an affair sway the favor in divorce proceedings?

    Post by Jason B. Fri Oct 19, 2012 2:07 pm

    Probably depends on how arbitrary and cruel the cheating spouse was about the affair.
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    Question Re: Should an affair sway the favor in divorce proceedings?

    Post by Alan Smithee Sat Oct 20, 2012 4:02 pm

    I have to go along with the "it depends" crowd.
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    Question Re: Should an affair sway the favor in divorce proceedings?

    Post by Alan Smithee Sun Oct 21, 2012 8:18 am

    I hope at least if one of the spouses was rich they have an ironclad prenup that covers infidelity.
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    Question Re: Should an affair sway the favor in divorce proceedings?

    Post by Impact Sun Oct 21, 2012 8:56 am

    It should factor into everything else, but shouldn't be make or break.

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