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Compared to when you were between eighteen to twenty-five, have your relationship 'deal breakers' changed? If so, what have you added/deleted from the list?
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Kral
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Deal breakers: then and now
Chris- Chamber Admin.
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I don't know. I never really had a list.
Shale- ...is a Chamber Royal.
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Alan Smithee wrote:I don't know. I never really had a list.
Same Here. I prefer thin athletic body types, but have shared a bed with big women & men. I like young men & women but have shared a bed with women older than my mother and my male partner was five years older than me.
So, I have preferences but apparently not deal breakers.
tmontyb- …is Authorized.
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I've only ever had two.
One is cigarettes. I just can't be with a smoker.
Second one is bad sex. If the sex is unsatisfying, we can be life long friends, but that's it.
Fortunately, I don't have to worry about that stuff now.
One is cigarettes. I just can't be with a smoker.
Second one is bad sex. If the sex is unsatisfying, we can be life long friends, but that's it.
Fortunately, I don't have to worry about that stuff now.
Shale- ...is a Chamber Royal.
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tmontyb wrote:...One is cigarettes. I just can't be with a smoker....
Oh yeah, I loathe cigarettes. Both my long-term companions smoked and it was really annoying to me and I said I would never go with a smoker again.
But guess what? When you meet someone with so many other attributes you like even that is not a deal breaker.
(well chain smoker yeah, but normal controllable habit - smoking away from me OK).
Marc™- …is a Chamber DEITY.
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Eh. Basically the same. I'm probably a little less anal about things like age and body type today than I was then, but not by much.
Tony Marino- …is a Global Moderator.
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Not really I was always pretty much open to whatever it was that stuck my fancy at the time.
Kral- …is a Power Member.
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Back then it was all about shallow things like looks, age and money. Now I still hold on to some of those shallow things but personality and life goals greatly factor in now more than they used to.
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It hasn't changed much. I would still like for you to be gainfully employed.
RedBedroom- …is a Chamber DEITY.
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I don't think I have changed much. I may have casually dated a person who didn't meet my "wish list" qualifications. But being serious with anyone meant they were motivated and had goals and good hygiene.
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tmontyb mentioned smokers. My wife smokes and heaven forbid I ever lose her because of it, I don't see myself getting seriously involved with another one.
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Shale wrote:
But guess what? When you meet someone with so many other attributes you like even that is not a deal breaker.
(well chain smoker yeah, but normal controllable habit - smoking away from me OK).
You're probably right.
RobbieFTW- …is Being Fitted For a Crown.
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My preferences are basically the same as they have ALWAYS been. The only thing that's changed in the age range. At 18 I remember not wanting a guy that was over 23 (altho I broke that rule more than once). Now I'm 27 so of course that's not the case anymore.
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Not much has changed...
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